Yup. And often in unbelievably high doses. Some bouts of depression you don't just "come out of". It requires medication. The depression is caused by chemical imbalances in the brain -- the severe versions of these are the ones that "just talking about it" won't help solve. These are the people that need medical help. ------------------ Yugo grills, Yugo mills, Check out the oil my Yugo spills...
you will fully make it through school.You will! It can be tough, trust me I know... last year was the worst year of my whole life, schoolwise and otherwise. I have always had a tendency to get depressed but last year took me completely by surprise in its utter rottenness, I wasn't prepared for it! I thought the whole time that I wasn't going to make it, that I was going to fail and that I was worthless... all that crap. I tried to kill myself early in the year and it just got worse and worse after that! But... even though I still remember how bad everything was, and the memory hurts I feel proud that I survived, against all odds. I made it, and I'm not the strongest person in the world, I was pretty weak. Not so weak now... because I proved I was worth something. People who give you crap are dumb, you shouldn't worry about them! Its hard not to when things are falling apart, but the person who should really be satisfied is you... if your happy with your grades then they are good enough. You sound like a cool bloke... dun let the world get you down and if it does rest assured it WILL get better, it ALWAYS does as long as u wait it out... and that is very possible. Happiness can be just around the corner... I'm a walking example of that I'm around if yew wanna talk too laterz.
That may work for some people, but sometimes people need help. Somtimes people will make it anyway, though they could have done so faster or easier with some guidance. Due to a # of factors, much of modern society has isolated a lot of people from their friends and families. If you are close to them (physically and mentally) by all means let them be a part of helping you make it through tough times. But some people don't have that, or even if they do their condition could also be improved by someone with additional training and expertise. This view that everyone should make it on their own, and it is their own fault if they don't regardless of circumstances, I think is a very shortsighted view of the world. Also Rimbaud, I really hope you (or anyone else) on this board doesn't have to deal with a severe mental disorder or cancer for that matter, but my advice would be to not soley rely on your mind-over-matter view instead of also seeking a clinician or oncologist, respectively. A positive attitude is a good thing, but I'd also recommend treament by people who have some training and knowledge concerning the problem. [This message has been edited by Desert Scar (edited May 02, 2001).]
Scar, Sever mental conditions and illness are a different matter. I almost died from pneumonia some time back and hospitilization was all that could have saved me. I certainly would not advocate "mind over matter" in such instances. I also do not think you can will yourself out of severe mental states, I have had too much experience being around such people to think otherwise. My comments were directed to those on this board. Those that are "depressed." Sure, there is severe depression, but if that were the case with these people they would practically be non-functioning. That not being the case, they are minor issues. In the future, please try to avoid extending my statements to such extreme generalizations that they become rediculously stupid. Thanks. ------------------ Whitey will pay.
Rimbaum, I am glad you clarified where you were coming from, that was one of my intents in responding pointedly. Though I clearly misinterpreted your comments, it wasn't without some foundation: I get where you are coming from now, and more importantly, I think others on the board will interpret what you said in the proper context as well. Thanks for clearing the air, DS
LOL, im sorry guys, but its so freakin' funny seeing something like this on a Houston Rockets fan site, . You guys seriously crack me up... ------------------ http://www.democrats.com mgh 1925-2001
LMSAO @ ya u untactful person! =oP thats okay rocket.... anytime. ------------------ Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend... =o)
Man, Who knew there were a bunch of depressives roaming around on this board? Well, I guess that does explain a little... Seriously, get over it. There is no point in wrapping yourself up in a blanket of depression. I do not care about chemicals, natural disposition, external forces, anything...if you so chose, you can overcome it. Too often, it is a matter of laziness or comfort that causes people not to work past their issues. Pain is a drug in many ways and often people are too afraid to let it go. "What would I do then?" The mind is a powerful tool and it can be used to dispel just about any mental issues, even physical ailments. look to yourself. Don't be weak, don't sell yourself short or let yourself off the hook. As you get older, you realize the younger issues were rediculously unimportant. Time passes, experience accumulates... If you want to see a therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, theologist, goat herder, whatever...do it. Personally, I think they are all a waste, but that is just for me. For others, they might not be, more power to you. Good hunting! ------------------ Whitey will pay.
