Just ask. It's simple....really it is. No guesswork is needed, if she says yes, she's obviously interested (unless she says, "we can go out, as friends). If she says no, you tried. Next.
This is what works for me. Next time you see her, walk up to her and casually ask "do you like apples?" Naturally, she'll reply "why, yes. I always enjoy a good apple." Then say "Great! Let's go back to my house and f**k. How do you like them apples?" (Granted, 99% of the time, you'll get slapped across the face. But the other 1%? It's magical.)
Or the perennial favorite.... You: "Are you a chicken farmer?" Girl: "No, why?" You: "Cuz you sure raise my c&%k." No, nevermind....don't use that one.
I like this advice. If I'm this woman, I probably don't want to go on a date with a guy I hardly know. I'd wait until I at least have the opportunity to have a couple real conversations with her. But if you don't like the idea of being passive, everyone else pretty much said it. Just ask her out and don't let the possibility of rejection get you down.
You've got to remember man, there is no such thing as failure. Only results. If things don't go well, hell you tried, and you get props for that. There really isn't much to go by to really know for sure if she's interested. Tell us more about the body language she had. Was she playing with her hair? Seem nervous at all? Did she smile at least? Those are good indicators. Make the best of it. Improvise. Adapt. Roll with it. Mike
I've been working these past few months on intention vs. expectation. If you aim your goals on just focusing on what your intention is, you will never be let down.
I like the idea of arranging to go out again in a group that includes her. That way, you can spend some more time with her, see if you really like her, etc., without any pressure or anything looking out of the ordinary. Then ask her out. The "ask your friend to ask her friend if she's interested" thing sounds so high school... I mean, if it works, it works, but seems like it's better just to take care of that yourself.
i dont want to sound like an a$$h*le or anything, but dude, c'mon..... all she said was "hello", and you're asking us if she's interested in you??? hell, i drove by a really hot girl today and i think she might of looked in my direction.... do you guys think i could slay her tonight??? maybe get some slick'um on my hangy-down??? help me out here fellas.... i mean, she did maybe glance in my general direction.
Grow some balls and ask her out to lunch and ASK the number YOURSELF, Dont ask your friends or her friends. Like I said grow some balls. 3 step rule: 1. Talk to her...How u doing? Have fun last time? So what school you go to....Stuff like that. Objective is breaking the ice nice and easy. 2 mins 2. Ask her name, but u already met her so just small talk for 2 more mins. 3. ASK her BUT be respectful....MAY OR DO U MIND..... Ex: DO u mind if I give u a call sometime so we can grab some lunch? (Innoccent and simple) Dont ask to go to the movies, date, or dinner? U dont want to come on too strong, just light and easy. 1 min Key thing is GROW SOME BALLS. Gurls like guys who are confident and have no problems controling the situation. If you dont get the #, I will be highly dissappointed bc 3 step rule has never failed. PS: She may like u, maybe not...but who cares....U like her so GO GET WHAT U WANT.....99% of the time u will not get a 2nd chance. Good luck
Umm...so she said hello and you think she likes you? Sounds like you might be desperate, dude. It's cool though, just approach her and don't worry about being turned down, is she introduced herself to you first then may be she is desperate too
Girls generally send out flirty signals to a handful of guys in a given situation, except the hideously deformed ones. It ain't a matter of natural attraction, it's a matter of who jumps at the signals first.
Even if she says no, free internet p*rnography will never reject you. Either way you cure the blue balls.
First of all noize, you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi." Two, you always call the shots. "Kiss me. You won't regret it." Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Isn't this great?" Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move. "Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice." And five, now this is the most important, noize. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.
