Aww, come on man, haven't you ever heard of bros before hos? Some people would rather not dive right back into the fray after something like this happens. I'm one of them. I swear to god, that game pretty much became me and my friends' free life for about 5 or 6 months, lol. There were 5 of us that would always get together and play on the same team, at least once every couple days. It's a blast to just hang out with the guys and not worry about girls. Of course, we play real basketball too, but I pretty much never go to clubs. And it's not like any of this hurt my girl situation... back in April I was dating four girls at once (now I'm down to two). But you see my point: different strokes for different folks.
If she tries it again I would say "Great hon! Thats fantastic news that some guy has finally found an orifice of yours that isn't too worn out to give him any friction. Hopefully your ass will hold his attention for another week or so, til he can find someone less skanky."
Wow! I've heard some ****ed up ****, but that takes the cake! Seriously cwebb, if she wants to act like a ho, treat her like one. Do not give her anymore of your respect. I'd probably publish her phone number in an ad in a local adult magazine or on the internet, but I can be pretty ruthless.
Sorry, man. That's about as mean a thing to do to someone who cares about you as I've ever heard. Like others have said, anyone who would do that isn't worth your affection. Pretend she died, and just move on. Don't lower yourself by trying to get back at her. Call some buddies and go do something fun; something that you enjoy, not just something that will occupy you so you don't have to think about her.
On the revenge path, this sounds the best. But I would also order some cool electornic crap off the internet with her credit cards -surely you have the numbers memorized by now, or a receipt or something. Get yourself a big screen tv on her.
Man, I was just about to laugh at you in a post, but I deleted it... Jeff... so does KARMA mean that cwebbster did this to someone else in another life? I don't... get it... "Uhhh... yes, we delivered the TV to a Mr. C. Webbster... blah blah.." - TV delivery man explaining to his ex-chick. HECK NO, don't do stuff that can be traced. I am one to say that two wrongs don't make a right, but DADAKOTA's advice is the best clean way to seek "revenge" if you still feel like you've been pooped on after following DrOxford's advice, ... Pinches viejas... ...
I don't know CWEB. I think you truly need to find a girl that kicks ass and it doesn't sound like this girl kicks ass if she's going to treat you like that. She may take it up the ass, but it doesn't seem like she kicks much ass.
The best thing to do (also almost nearly impossible) is ignore her as much as you can. Pretend it doesnt get to you. Let her know your better than her and that your the best thing she has ever had and can get. Call her a w****, slut, etc... if you need to. She deserves it. After 3 years its probably gonna be impossible. Your head is gonna be messed up for a while. Stay away from getting plastered because it just leads to sadness. Hangout with your close friends, play sports, put more time into your hobbies (like you playing 2k5), and maybe try to look better for yourself and incase she sees you. Workout, haircut, whatever... Good luck. You be fine. Eventually...
Seriously man I feel for you, that is some really messed up ****. My situation didn't quite play out like that over the phone, but its somewhat close. I was with my ex for four years and found out that she was cheating on me, she called to tell me that she tested positive for an STD and by the grace of God I didn't catch anything. Messed up thing is that she stayed with the guy she caught it from. She'd been cheating on me for about four months, but I hardly noticed since I was working two jobs and going to school, she was my entire personal life outside my group of friends at work. I felt just like you do now, she was my everything...or so I thought. When the **** hit the fan, my family and friends were there for me to lean on, and it really opened my eyes to what really comprises my life. Theres no denying that you're gonna feel sad and miss her, but the best thing to do is cherish the times you had and learn from the relationship. When she calls, and she will, do not, I repeat DO NOT talk to her and if you do keep your answers short. DO NOT talk about how hurt you are and how much you miss her, it will only come back and bite you in the @ss. Believe me I know. As for hitting the clubs... it was never really my thing I kind of layed low for about two or three months before I actively started looking to hook up with other women. It didn't take long before I met some really interesting and good-looking women, and like DF22 I was going out with four girls beginning mid 2003 and luckily I found that special one a couple of months later. I know its cliche and sounds like bullsh!t, but everything does happen for a reason. Best of luck to you, you'll get over it and things will get better. If you need someone to talk to about it drop me an email.
Yeah man, I gotta say, this is the one reason I actually like breakups. You get to find out who your real friends are, the ones who really give a **** about what's happening in your life. I know I've had a lot of surprises, both in who's been there for me and who hasn't after a breakup. You really can never tell. So try to feel blessed in that way, let your real friends help you get yourself together, and you'll find you'll meet another girl (or four, in my and JN's case) in a matter of months. Best wishes man.
Just move on. Don't let her get to you and for sure don't let her know that she got to you. If you can't do that, send the recording to one of Oprah's booking agents...
