I didn't think I would ever say this, but listen to the fat b*stard this time. Don't try to blame yourself.
I've been following this thread and it has been an interesting read. I don't want this thread to fade away without a conclusion so here's to Lil Pun and hope he made a decision he's happy with, followed it through and let us know the results.
Even before I finish reading this thread, I want to give a huge "Hallelujah!!!" to this post. I nominate Dubious for poster of the year!
It has been a month....what happened? Is she gone for good? There was some great advice in this thread. We have all gone through this at some point in our lives. I am going to save a copy of this thread, in case I ever need to share it with a friend. Those that said she is banging other dudes unfortunately, are right on the money. She got bored with you. You were always there, too convenient and no longer a challenge. The tough part is that this is the only way to learn.