So I was seeing this girl for the last month or so. Over the past week she was acting really weird not returning my calls and she went back home this weekend without telling me. So I was defintely concerned/confused since we hit it off real good. So I went to her Apartment to talk to her roomies to see what was up. Turn out she's pregant! Not by me though we never did anything other than kissing. We started dating around January 3rd her roommates said her and X-BF got together new years eve. They're not back together it was just a 1 night thing. So I've had all these strong feelings and spent so much time for a girl that is pregant by another man. I feel like such a loser... She still hasnt even told me but I'm done calling. This really sucks cuz I havent hit off this well with a female since High School where I dated the same girl for many many years... So now I have a new idea on how Im gonna finish off my college career. I've spent the first 2 1/2 years of college dating trying to find that special somebody being that extremely nice guy. Well I thought I finally had that but obviously thats not going to work. So now I'm gonna try that P.I.M.P thing that I never tried nor wanted to but I'm not gonna waste these next 2 years of just dating around starting today its gonna be all about sleeping around and just having fun. I have the rest of my life to find that girl but only a few years left of being surrounded by thousands of college girls..... Wish me luck...
exactly, if you want to date alot of woman and not look for anything serious go ahead. have fun. but 2 things are importent, 1 what Hoopstar said 2 do not be blind for a girl that could mean more to you then a one night stand. do not get bitter by woman. it is not worth it. I know some guys who had some bad experience with a girl and did not want to get in a serieus relationship with another girl, even tough they were great. so do not blame every woman for one girls actions. good luck
hell yea, be the PIMP you are made to be. first of all I commend you on your usage of paragraphs that are dissapointingly forgotten by guys asking for relationship advice. my eyes thank you!! follow synergy's rule of advice: treat woman like dirt, and they keep comin back! it works like a charm. I used to be a nice guy to girls, but now I am a jerk, and I get 10X the girls I used to when I was nice. Its a sad, but true statement about women. i have about three-four active gf's right now, and the most they will get out of me from Valentines day is about a call. Thats about it. LOL. I'm not a jerk all around. I'm very pleasant, and friendly around my male friends, buddies,rockets fans, etc...... Just know who to be rude to.....also especially at the Post office, Cops, and DMV employees. ( but all that is for another story)
ladies are **** man,their beautiful but the thought of spending my hola life with one single lady jsut make me feel like chandler in friends
Dude, no way! I've been doing that nice guy thing forever now and it hasn't gotten me too far either. Good post, I'm gonna have to remember this.....Crazy
this nice guy routine has been very good for me. But i do have to say that i did not have alot of girls but the ones that i did date stayed with me for a pretty long time. So the nice guy routine does have it advantages
The problem with being a jerk is the women it attracts will only respect you as long as you are a jerk I played that game for a while but it was so not me I couldn't keep it up and when I started being nice they lost interest damn shame because vinegar is so much more effective than honey when it comes to picking up women
Man, that sucks...Sorry to hear about that, but don't think your a loser...Hell, she didn't know she was pregnant and neither did you...The reason she hasn't called is because she's probably embarassed for being a hoe... One of my firsts dates I had after the breakup was practically the same way, meaning she turned out being pregnant after we went on a couple of dates, no kissing or anything...She still wanted to date, but I was like, NO FREAKIN' WAY...No offense, but I have kids already and I wasn't gaga over her...If i was, I'd have to think long and hard... Anyway, I've tried the nice guy thing, but it's because its who I am, and it works for girls looking for that...If their not, there's no chance...If you go down the path of being a PIMP, you may over play it and get hurt in the end, unless that is truly who you are...
