My brother, my friend, and I set up a website. It's just us goofing around, and we have no general purpose, but it's a fun site to run. We just started it and are at a fledgling stage, but people seem to like it so far. It's a fun experience to be able to do something like that, and have people appreciate it.
I didn't know if I'd be allowed, I didn't wanna post w**** itcool, and it's nothing too special. Just a bunch of kids goofing around. Nobody Kids
Date: January 26 , 2005 Title: Cuddle Me :-* Considering I haven't written anything in here that has taken much thought in a long while, I figured I'd practice for my upcoming "Sensitive Guys Expressing Unpopular Beliefs 101" class. This past weekend, moreso just Sunday, I grew to realize something. This realization is something that isn't very popular among people my age, especially guys. What I realize was something simple..something you've all heard but don't want to believe or admit to. I'll probably even get made fun of by my own girlfriend for saying this. What I realized was.. Sex is overrated. This past Sunday I laid on a couch and watched TV cuddled in the arms of the girl I love more than anything in this world. I know what you're thinking; "That's so boring." "Yawn." Think what you want, though. It was the best feeling I've had in a long time. That's all I've been thinking about lately. At work I do my "chores" and just think about that Sunday; that day where nothing could go wrong. There's no feeling in the world like the one you get when you're lover falls asleep while she lays in your arms. You can't beat a full day of cuddling on a couch and watching TV and stealing glances at each other. NOTHING beats that. Don't get me wrong, here. By no means am I saying I don't like sex. Sex is nice. Sex feels good. I like sex. But the feeling you get from that doesn't even compare to the one you have when you just spend the day with the one you love, laughing, smiling, kissing, hugging. People nowadays tend to judge their "good times" by if they "get laid" or not. To be quite honest, I'm sick of people asking me if I had sex every time I'm with my girlfriend. Who cares? Do you think we can't have fun without having sex? Going to the mall, the movies, dinner..THAT IS FUN. Sure, sex is fun, but is it the only "form" of fun nowadays? I haven't always felt this way. Hell, even two weeks ago I pissed off my girlfriend by talking with my "little head." I was a pure *******, and that's that. I had no right to treat her the way I did, and I realize that it was the worst I have EVER treated her. I shouldn't have said what I did, but I said it. I regret it. I hate myself for it. And I'm sorry for doing it. I've never done that before. I've always treated her with the ultimate respect, because that's how I think she should be treated. I've never dated for sex, nor will I ever date for sex. I don't see the point in it. If you're all about sex, I don't believe you should be in a relationship. A relationship is all about spending time together, having fun, and making each other happy. True, sex does this, but that shouldn't be your main focus in a relationship. Sex is good in a relationship, and all, but seriously, if you rely on it to maintain your relationship, I think you should give up, and stick with one night stands. Maybe I'm sensitive. Maybe I'm emo. Maybe I'm old-fashioned. Maybe I AM "more of a best friend than a boyfriend" type. Whatever you want to call me, I'll accept it. All I know is that I'm happy being the type of guy I am, one who respects his girlfriend and treats her like a princess 99% of the time, than like most other guys..guys that treat their girlfriend like an object..guys that have to have sex with their girlfriend EVERYTIME they're with her..guys that say stuff like, "Did you tap that?" "Look at that ass!" "I got laid last night. Hell yeah!" I refused to be like. I'm happy being me and the way I am, and in that respect I will never change. Bank on it. I love you. I miss your nose. --------------------------------------- WTF... Has this guy actually found the hole yet during sex? Nobody Kids, look at them. They are beautiful... prime for chopping. Not some forced YoYao revitalization that was that pitiful OCP bandwagon. These guys could easily be stars.
