Maybe if you treated a girl you were interested in like a queen she would respond in a queenly manner?
For most guys, the problem is which woman you choose to treat like a queen. Make sure it's someone who deserves it, and doesn't just look cute or pretty... stay away from the immature ones. (of course, I know this is probably entirely contrary to male human nature and I shouldn't even bother) And, for every "women, can't live with 'em" conversation, how many conversations do you think there are - in ladies' rooms, on girls' cell phones, etc. - with the topic of "why are guys such a$$holes?" Well, there are quite a lot of these conversations. Most of them happen where you can't hear them. Just so you'll know.
twhy, You are quite the BBS character! Next time I come to Houston, I have to meet you in person so I can buy you a beer. [size=1/4]Now with that being said, watch Cheetah post that damn smilie with the 2 happy faces rubbing up against each other...[/size]
If you come to Houston and meet me that would be cool because I am in Dallas and would obviously be bilocating. I'm really not that interesting, I'm sitting in a computer lab mulling over teh poetry of Robert Southwell while a bunch of Iranian business students look at me like I shouldn't be here.
Thank god Manny found a new crush. I'm not jealous really, I mean I'll just sit back and hope that you are happy and that you know everything works out just fine and...
It's going to be unrequited love for Manny because my heart belongs to rimbaud. twhy77-postathon-2005
I have to admit that I am not AT ALL looking forward to dating. I've always been a long-term relationship guy, but I feel like I don't need that at the moment, which means dating and seeing what's out there. The prospect of that holds little appeal. It's one thing if you are in school or in a big organization, but when you work for yourself (and by yourself most of the time), I just have no idea where I'm going to look. I am maybe the world's worst at initiating potential "hey, can I get your number?" conversations. I suck beyond belief. Plus, I have a strict rule about not dating women I meet at gigs for the simple fact that it is based on such phony circumstances and it is difficult to tell if someone likes you for YOU or because you play in a band. "I learn to deal with the fact that you are just a wedding singer." Remember that from the Adam Sandler movie? Prime example of what I mean. Anyway, I'm venting. Sigh.
I have 2-4 good women friends. I'll call them to yack on the phone for 30 minutes or more every few weeks. My wife didn't like it at first, but she got past being threatened by it... I think.