Let's be fair. Disheveled and exhausted, stressed-out. Rousted by the cops. A simple brush, a good night's sleep, and not getting arrested for having sex with a minor, and she's back to hot. Looking at her Instagram picture, waaaaaay too much makeup. In any case, what is it with people so stupid as to (a) do this sort of thing and (b) text your crime?
It's not really that complicated; they're sick. You can't understand that because it's unknowable if you aren't also sick.
My friend described it by saying when he was molested at 7 (by a older child) that he thinks his mind became sexualized, he started being attracted to (and molesting) other kids in his age group, and despite growing older and viewing adults as attractive, never stopped being attracted to kids. He killed himself because of it.
That is horrible. I hope he's at peace. I know it's easy to villainize people, and in most cases, they absolutely deserve it, but it just goes to show that we never truly know what is going on behind the eyes and between the ears of others. When I started in oncology, I was fairly young, but I quickly realized that most of the people I saw, I would have no clue what they were going through if I saw them outside of the building. When I saw them inside the building, though, I often knew the type of hell they were experiencing. Pedophilia, and your friend is an extreme example, and I'm not trying to absolve anyone of their sins here, but we never truly know what someone else is going through, and if you keep that thought in mind, it helps put some things into (sometimes odd) perspective. Sorry for the weird post in this thread. Carry on.
Downers Grove South teacher accused of sexually abusing teen kept ‘memoir’ on her phone, authorities say The Downers Grove South High School teacher accused of sexually abusing a student wrote what police called a “memoir” about the matter on her phone. Portions were cited in the request from prosecutors to detain Christina Formella, 30, pretrial, according to DuPage County court records. Formella, who taught special education, is charged with one felony count of criminal sexual assault and two felony counts of aggravated criminal sexual abuse. She is accused of having sexual contact with a 15-year-old boy in December 2023, including an encounter before school in a classroom. She is free on pretrial release and returns to court on April 14. The boy’s mother discovered text messages between the two. She reported the texts to police on March 14, and Formella was arrested the next day. According to the petition, Downers Grove police searched Formella’s phone and found a “memoir” in the Notes app. In one note, Formella accused the victim of cheating on her, later telling police she meant emotionally, but said she lost interest, according to court records. In addition, authorities say she wrote that she had texted the victim repeatedly that they should break up until after he graduated, but he convinced her it would be fine. Documents said she wrote that the victim “gaslit” her. “We will never ever be together again. I'm not a second choice. I'm the best thing you'll ever have even with all of my mistakes,” the note said. Detectives say they found another entry from November 2024 that said the two would connect again soon and “get the closure we need in order to move on in a healthy way. We will be able to be a part of each others lives forever.” The petition states Formella denied having sexual contact with the victim and that she told police she knew the relationship was wrong, but she was unable to stop it because she cared about him. Police said they found text messages on the victim’s phone, including one they believe is from Formella stating, “I love having sex with you.” Formella told police the victim had taken her phone, sent the message to his phone, deleted it from her phone and saved it to blackmail her, according to the petition. She told police the notes were an outlet for her anxiety but that any reference to sex was about her husband, according to court records.
These women go for teenage boys because they can't control men and they don't get the adoration that they want from men. Then they find out they can't get it from the boys either. Like this chick talking about I'm the best thing you'll ever have. They're separate group from the pedophiles.
Two things, why the F do people keep using texts and e-mails showing their guilt..............it's not just these dumb ass teachers but everyone from politicians to pedos can't resist this ..............if you're doing something illegal, probably not good to have a record of what you were doing, tip number two, they can track where you have been if you have your phone, for God`s sake have a burner, do you people not watch SVU or any other crime show?
