My son knows I drink, but I've never been drunk in front of him. As you said above, moderation. Plus we only have beer for 2-3 hours. When I get back to where I'm staying is where I can get tipsy. Made him and his friends watch Caddyshack. They were unimpressed. And again, we have always enjoyed each others company. He knew all about me missing my flight when I got back and we talked about it. This is something recent that happened after graduation.
and now the step-dad, who showed me how much we were in agreement with our ex. is not responding. I'm not a weird one. Once a week to check in. Emotion will make you one gullible mother ****er. I truly feel I've been played and I hope my son figures it out. I've been a part of his life 23+ years. This isn't a template anyone should have to deal with. This was my song I sang to him in the first 10 years over the phone. That and Polar Express. Ah, and Fish Heads. He loved Fish Heads.
Cant you go drive to your son's place and ask him whats going on? Or is this more about the step-dad betraying you as a friend?
When you have to ask a bunch of nerdy BBS Rocket fans if you are getting played, then you are most definitely getting played.
The man tried or discussed adopting your son at one point, right? You think YOU weren't a frequent topic of conversation between he and your ex? Or... that maybe he doesn't discuss YOU with your ex or even your son these days? Sheesh.
We all just watched a livestream of his first concert at CU. Whatever he talked to my ex about? Who cares. He and I are on the same page now. And if my son had an issue, he hasn't let on. He just bragged about wearing the Movado watch I got him for graduation this evening that he was wearing during his first concert there. As a parent, you can get freaked out over nothing. It happens.
You're a ****ing idiot. https://www.movado.com/us/en/shop-w...025101b788ecb3ac5b87ee032&gclsrc=ds&gclsrc=ds