Do you have kiddos? There will always be something irrational. Again, his stepfather, who married the girl the same day we got divorced. We're now great. How does that make any sense? And yet, it does. Life is wild. And you have to roll with it. I called a broad last night the most gorgeous Leprechaun I'd ever seen. She laughed.
I don’t have kids but I know enough that if you want to keep them in your life you should respect their choices.
Is an extra 20lbs on a girl "fat"? Or is she just "curvy"? Or is she "thick"? Just a question for the bbs. I do not really discriminate. Yes, there is too skinny (no boobs) and there is too unskinny (too much everywhere). There are beautiful women everywhere in between.
Not really. Peoples bodies are different. Carrying 20 extra pounds isn’t ideal but it’s not a death sentence. Most people can handle 20 extra pounds and be fine for the most part.
Look. As a Parent we can be illogical. I still talk to my college fiance (who got proposed to on TV) She said her parents didn't like me. I was too shy. Lol.
And I admitted I didn't love my ex. That alone could screw me. She was great naked. Both me & the stepdad cheered to that.
If she is 23 and 20 lbs overweight that should be concerning? Not really… her being abusive to him or not caring for him or not being loyal to him are things to worry about. You don’t have to find her attractive, all that matters is that he finds her attractive. You have steered out of your lane. You support him and say something once if it is really bad - and being over weight at 23 doesn’t qualify. Also, you brought up your ex’s looks. How did that turn out? You and her next husband both are now not with her. I don’t think it’s fair to judge you being shallow, you are forward and honest about it and we all are different. However don’t assume your son is the same way.
Let's be fair. I would never say anything to my son. I've had parents do that. Nobody puts baby in a corner. But there, IMO is nothing wrong with wanting that your son deserves better. He will never hear that. And we all love his outcomes, but we've all made bad ones. I Wish there was a card I could give.
And I have one coming over to cut my hair. Not saying it is a great thing, but a free haircut with a girl bringing three bikininis.
My son is amazing. I don't what I can say above that. My ex is a cheater. Ironically she cheats because she thinks her guy is doing it first. **** that broad. She tried to cheat on me with the other Stepdad and then he and I found out she slept with the guy she married before the two of us.
@Roscoe Arbuckle can you post pics of someone that has her body type? I'm a bit confused, what does "20lbs overweight" even mean, it's not a lot and if you put that weight on someone skinny or "normal" it's basically nothing. Otherwise agree with bobrek etc, it's much more important that she's a great girlfriend to him and makes him happy, I don't see how a mere 20lbs is a concern.
I was going through my ex and our breakup when I first found this place in 98-99? I don't recall. Barkley and Pinstripes were the thing. This song still hit because she was that girl. Saw her at my son's graduation.
I think as the father u should b more worried about her personality and behavior towards u (the parent) and your son. Someone Weight can always b decreased. Someone looks will always fade, but personality/behavior yea that sht is hard to fix. It's great that u acknowledge that u are shallow, but maybe your son isn't? Does she make your son laugh? is she a good cook? is she very affectionate? U should probably interact with her more, then maybe u can see what your son sees. A marriage based mainly on looks isn't gonna last long, just saying.
Just like how you solely focus on looks of your potential daughter in law and think negatively of it. My way of "typing" distracts you from the message I am trying to relay. Gotta stop focusing on looks. BTW it's an internet forum there's no right or wrong way to type as long as folks can read it.
