Bumping this solely to respond to this post. I talked to my Dad today...he made it clear, anything I want to say to my grandma...its now or never.
Yeah its bad. She also is pretty gone mentally. I want her to call me and leave a voicemail I can listen to. One of my biggest regrets is never getting to say goodbye to my great grandmother
None of yall can FaceTime? Probaby have to call in favors or eat face to get hostile family members to set that up for you, esp if she's mentally unavailable and decency is iffy. This is one of those moments where you can't buy back or say goodbye through voicemail.
I just called her and had to stop myself from breaking down. She talked about visiting me... I know its stupid to say but **** cancer
She has zero idea she's on the verge of dying. I have a really rough relationship, borderline abusive, with my mother. But I always felt safe at her houae.
