I worked restaurants when I was young, and i find that people whose pay almost entirely depends on pretending to like people tend to be fake. I'll admit, it's not entirely fair, but I've found that for me it's just better when I passed on service industry types. Friends? Absolutely. Friends with benefits? Of course, but that's as far as I'd take it.
I don't judge. If it works for them, I'm cool with it. I find it weird when pornstars are married, and the girl quits the business but the guy keeps on doing everyone.
If you marry or get serious with a p*rn star, you are broken somewhere. Take the Christi Mack/War Machine saga, for example. Gorgeous p*rn star + psycho, insecure, jealous boyfriend. Add in MMA, drugs, alcohol and Vegas = trainwreck ensues.
There is a legendary thread about this. https://bbs.clutchfans.net/threads/would-you-date-a-pornstar.56482/
As far as I can tell, 'dating' or 'seeing' in English could be casually dating or seriously dating someone (relationship wise). In other languages dating could be just a series of rendezvous and nothing more. Go out and knock urself out.
What qualifies as a p*rn star these days? Someone who makes a majority of their money from banging on film? If it's just banging on video, anyone can do that... I took Fatty's 'dating' as casual, because he's a professional bachelor.
I thought that’s everyone in the work field? You like everyone where you work at? Do you show emotion at work all the time?
It's just a different situation. Getting along with coworkers or your boss that you don't like is different than the service industry where you have to do that PLUS pretend to like dozens or potentially hundreds of strangers you don't like every day..... and your pay is entirely dependent on how good a job you do of it. Also this is just a dating rule I had for myself, I'm not saying industry people are bad, hell, I was one when I was super young. I just don't think they make very good significant others.
It begs the question, why do people feel the need to have emotional intimacy with only one person. It's such an arbitrary rule. Even in marriage. The only reason people think it's the end of the world is because they've been taught it is, but really, it shouldn't be. I wont argue that sex doesn't emotionally connect people. It does. I won't argue that people don't care if you cheat, they do. But my thought is there is no rational reason why it should bother anyone.
STDs but even if you wear it every time strictly you forget if after being drunk. Not knocking up the other part. Spoiler Seriously, for men the libido is decreasing with age but your brain is still horny while for women it's different and likely increasing. That is why it is a battle of the sexes. There are other reasons as well, whole different need for stability and loyalty, I still stand by that, even if your need of loyalty results in caring for your dog or cat instead of a partner. But you could also party every day and exchange intimate partners frequently, it is a life style choice and depending on if you have sufficient money.
I don't know about you but I only have enough emotional fuel to deal with my wife. Sure, there are people I'm attracted to but I don't have the energy and commitment to connect anyone else as much I do with my wife.
