I was always afraid to break up with her because i do believe she will try to commit suicide. she does have problems. she was always depressed. She had arguements with her mom and grandparents. She attempted suicide many times. She had a bad childhood. she was raped by her dad, and uncle. I just thought i could help her. Oh well at least the other guy is going to have his hands full.
Attempted suicide is not a desire to no longer live. Suicide will take care of that. Attempted suicide is a plea for attention.
is there a way to get this girl some help without you becoming so intimately involved in her life again? i hear ya...she definitely needs help..but from someone who is a trained professional in helping people work through this. i realize you may feel some bitterness towards her...but at the same time, this baby is about to born into a not so great enviornment. does anyone know of a suicide hotline or something where they might be able to give this girl some help??
I always thought attempted suicide was somebody too stupid to get the job done... If she can't do something as simple as killing herself, then she's obviously not worth the effort...
Okay, bear with me here but I think I can sum up this saga with the help of Floyd: Despite what all his friends said about her, Dnj thought so highly of "Sam" that he would urge her to "Shine On, Her (You) Crazy Diamond!" When he Dnj did this, all of his friends thought he had suffered "Brain Damage" but Dnj found himself "Wish(ing) She (You) Was Here" when he was apart from her. Little did Dnj realize that "Sam" was really a "Pig(s) (Three Different Ones)" and that he was a "Sheep". To Dnj, "Sam" represented "Young Lust" and although his friends would continue to implore him to "Run Like Hell" away from her, he found himself "Comfortably Numb" around Sam. But that changed when this other guy came into the picture. Pretty soon Dnj found himself telling "Sam" to "Don't Leave Me Now". But if Dnj would just realize that "Time" does heal all wounds, he will be okay.
It is not your responsibility to protect her from herself and not your fault if she kills herself when you leave. She has serious problems but it doesn't appear that you are remotely able to cope with them especially given your inability to walk away when it began to get out of control.
What pisses me off is that the dude lives in Tennesse, she only met him twice and slept with him the first time they met.
Thats terrible Manny....hey man I havent forgotton you....I will send the cd to you soon.........sorry back to the Jerry Springer show
Hehe - I couldn't resist; I knew it was tacky. Yea, I was cleaning out emails and I thought about that CD. I figured you have been busy - take your time, there is no rush.
i kind of understand where you are coming from with that because i tried to help out my first gf who had problems. you'll eventually realize you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. if they want to be helped then they will make an effort to change and not continue doing stupid crap. move on with your life and just forget about her. this is a very mean person you are dealing with. you also need to look at yourself and try to understand why you put up with this crap for so long. its not simply because you wanted to help her. it probably also has something to do with you needing to feel some sort of love. so i am guessing you might have some things you need you should try to work on too.
Two things. You just made rock band references officially geeky You giving relationship advice is like Shawn Kemp speaking at an Abstinence Rally.
Manny, you like Avril Lavigne, never mention Pink Floyd again. Your Referencing Cool Rock Bands privelages have been revoked.
