Have you ever gotten back together with an ex? Did it work?

How would you know? Please keep these type of things in the privacy of your own bedroom.

 

It's this time of the year.


Starting with a V

 

I'm with TJ. Exes are good for a piece of ass.

 

*crowd chanting*

Slut! Slut! Slut!

and


Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

 

Franchise2001,

Hey man, I feel your pain. Last August I got a John Deere letter (Dumb and Dumber quote ) from the first love of my life; it hurt like hell. Still does, in a lot of ways. About a month ago I sent her a letter of my own basically explaining my side of things; I haven't heard back from her, nor do I really want to, but it made me feel a lot better just by getting a few things off my chest. In other words, it gave me closure. My view is that if she wants me back, she can come and get me since she drove me away in the first place. I'm not going to go crawling on my knees back to her. So anyway, the point of all that is, I know how all this feels, especially since it sounds like we're about the same age (I'm 22, she's 20). And remember, if all else fails strip clubs and one night stands can be very therapeutic

 

Boy, if you hadn't said earlier that her name was Lindsay I would have thought we were going out with the same girl!

Keep your head up, man.

 

I saw it coming, but I said nothing because some things just have to be discovered for yourself.

You have your closure and you kept your dignity.

Welcome back to the world of the living.

 

You did what you could - don't do anything else. You emailed her and then contacted her on AOL - and you're done. You're better off blocking her as well - trust me - like I said before, baby steps.
Its easier said than done, but this was your first step in the right direction.

She will always have a place in your heart, but just know that every girl you meet isn't HER. I've slowly been learning that it's not fair to other people, let alone YOURSELF, to hold that against anyone who is trying to get close to you. Its scary as hell, but I have a feeling that some day it will be worth it. Best of luck.

 

You should hook up with her one more time...........turn her around and do her in the RC Cola.......

 

I'm sorry to hear that. My dad died of a heart attack unexpectedly two years ago this May.

Prayers for your friend.

 

Same here... Master Baiter, sorry about your dad.

Same thing happened to me four months ago. I still can't believe it. Like being set down in the middle of a horror movie where these things just aren't supposed to happen.

 

Tell everyone she's the main act in "The Donkey Show"

 

That should've been your first cue man.

 

Franchise2001, whatever you do at this point, it's imperative that you make the new girl feel like she's the only thing that matters in your life right now. Make no mention of your ex around her. I'm thinking that even if she's acting cool about it, she's probably starting to wonder what kind of devotion she can expect to receive from you and whether or not it's worth it to get into a relationship with someone that has someone like your ex in their past. This is, of course, assuming that you want a long-term relationship with this new girl.

Good luck.