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Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Ghettostar85, Jan 23, 2004.

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  1. Ghettostar85

    Ghettostar85 Member

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    met the gurl of my life,I liked her and she liked me ...........but she doesen ´t have the courage to take it to another level because of her parents.......... life suck right now : ( ...never liked a girl like her that much
     
    #1 Ghettostar85, Jan 23, 2004
  2. Mr. Clutch

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    What does she think her parents would object to?
     
    #2 Mr. Clutch, Jan 23, 2004
  3. Ghettostar85

    Ghettostar85 Member

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    she knows that they don´t accept her having a boyfriend,thats the main reason
     
    #3 Ghettostar85, Jan 23, 2004
  4. boomboom

    boomboom I GOT '99 PROBLEMS

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    What are her parent's expectations? Is she in school...and they feel that should be her main focus?
     
    #4 boomboom, Jan 23, 2004
  5. Ghettostar85

    Ghettostar85 Member

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    I don´t know really,she´s just 18 years old and I think her mother said to her that she´s to young to have a boyfriend and all that .....
     
    #5 Ghettostar85, Jan 23, 2004
  6. drapg

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    This is why a jar of vaseline is a man's best friend.
     
    #6 drapg, Jan 23, 2004
  7. drapg

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    ... and why I refuse to ever "fall in love" again. Too much pain, drama and headache for me. That far outweighs the benefits (again, for me)
     
    #7 drapg, Jan 23, 2004
  8. yipengzhao

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    dang... are her parents chinese or something? why are they so controlling?

    you know they don't have to know about it right?
     
    #8 yipengzhao, Jan 23, 2004
  9. A-Train

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    Maybe she's afraid that your grammar and spelling skills will be passed along to any future children.
     
    #9 A-Train, Jan 23, 2004
  10. drapg

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    Thanks. My monitor needed a good washing.
     
    #10 drapg, Jan 23, 2004
  11. Ghettostar85

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    naaw they aren´t chinese,they are maroccans,me myself is algerian....and we live in Sweden,but thats one of the main reason why there are controlling I guess......and I know that they don´t have to know about it,but she said that her mother would find out,love and having boyfriend is just something u can see on a person I think
     
    #11 Ghettostar85, Jan 23, 2004
  12. London'sBurning

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    That's what a wash cloth is for.
     
    #12 London'sBurning, Jan 23, 2004
  13. mrdave543

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    im calling bull ****.....girl doesnt like u and is using it as an excuse.......:D


















    Jk.....sorry man
     
    #13 mrdave543, Jan 23, 2004
  14. Ghettostar85

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    hehe naaw man she is not using it as an excuse ......believe me
     
    #14 Ghettostar85, Jan 23, 2004
  15. VesceySux

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    No pictures. No shoes. No service.

    Sorry. :)
     
    #15 VesceySux, Jan 23, 2004
  16. bottlerocket

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    I think you are getting played and she is hitting it on the side w/ some one else.

    Ask your if that is an excuse a player would use? Yep.
     
    #16 bottlerocket, Jan 23, 2004
  17. ees

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    Agreed. While I would want to, I know I don't ever want that feeling of falling "out of love" ever again.
     
    #17 ees, Jan 23, 2004
  18. Deckard

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    I don't know how much your cultural mix is affecting things (wow, two people from different North African countries living in Sweden, one of the most liberal places on earth!), but if she really cares for you, then persevere. Having a boyfriend or a girlfriend usually happens to people here long before the age of 18. It definitely happens to Swedes!
     
    #18 Deckard, Jan 23, 2004
  19. HAYJON02

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    You need to see the music video "Congratulations Smack and Katie" by Reggie and the Full Effect. It's the story of how peanut butter fell in love and won the heart of jelly despite her parents objections. Her parents are two huge pieces of bread. It's inspiring.

    Also if that doesn't solve your problem, this will make you laugh.
    http://www.ebaumsworld.com/peanutbutter.shtml
    ITS PEANUT BUTTER JELLY TIME!!!
     
    #19 HAYJON02, Jan 23, 2004
  20. meggoleggo

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    Have you thought about going to the parents and asking? even if you guys have an escort on the first date, it's better than nothing.
     
    #20 meggoleggo, Jan 23, 2004
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