For a man to have great sex with a woman the guy has to lick clams and then knock around that little guy in the boat. The "in and out" is always optional.
size matters a lot.....bigger ur thing is the less work ya gotta do i think;.......i do very lil work
I'd say mostly talent, but that sorta falls into the realm of chemistry. If two people have no chemistry together, you can bust out all your tricks and it's still gonna be kinda blah. If there's just a natural sexual chemistry between you, though, just looking into each others' eyes can be just as intense as a round of brutal pegging.
I was thinking about this (good topic, RR) and I think that talent is what gets you where you want to be for either sex. Call it natural ability, the way some people are just great drivers (lol!), charisma... you know, the way someone can just completely turn you on with a look, and you just have to find out what they can do in the sack... it goes a long way. But skills are aquired with experience, maybe with one partner over time, or with several... again, aquired over time. And there is a lot of skills to aquire. Ultimately, it's the combination of both, that and whatever physical gifts you have, that create a great lover. That's why you have older men and women who are incredible lovers. They took what they started out with (the talent and physical gifts) and added the skills of long practice. As an older guy, that's been my experience. It's not all about being 20 or 25 and having that stamina, in the case of men, or the firm breasts and other gifts a young woman has, although it's terrific. If I could combine "youthful" talent with what I've learned over the years, life would be even better.
best post of the thread...the Barry White pic not withstanding.. but hell yea..I agree totally.. if I had the vitality and sex appeal I had when younger with the skills I have acquired over the years... I wouldnt be able to ever get rid of a woman.....as it is any one of my exs would gladly agree to a sexual relationship if I so desired because of my acquired skills.. geez, that sounds awful pompous.....but its true..
