I don't deny that SOME women use sex to get what they want, just as some men use sex as a promise for promotions, etc. If I could I would be in sweats and jeans at work as well, but I can't. Just as someone posted in a different thread, however, "if you want to impress them outdress them." I was taught to dress at the level you are trying to get to. Yes, sex sells. It sells in advertising, television, etc. Thats a matter of fact, but is it the woman's fault that men "forget about what they were thinking about and do things they wouldnt otherwise do??" Sure, some women use it to their advantage, as do some men, but what about those that may not realize they are "making a statement" or those that aren't necessarily trying to be looked at in this way?
Tara should post her pics and add them to the clutchfans.net photo album. I have my pictures posted at the cfnet photo album.
E- I never said that females are "asking" for harassment, my point was that women know what they are doing when they dress sexy. They know guys are going to stare, and they know guys are going to fantasize about nailing them next to the water cooler in the break room. They also know that if something comes up between them work related or not, they can use the harassment card to get a guy fired. Believe me Ive seen it happen. And seriously..... how many male HR mangers do you know?
Whoa there, I just saw this, but FT has not been on all day. I won't even mention this request to him, but I am curious as to what he will respond. FT and I sent our pics to people we communicated with on a different forum. We did not send the pics until we had developed an online friendship with them. They also shared their pics with us. Some people don't mind posting their pics for all to see, but FT and I are a little more cautious than that. The request is flattering but... if I wore my skirt and boots just to get attention and drive men crazy...then I would probably have my pics posted on several sites....don't you think?
Do not post your pics. You could be laying in a bed next to Kobe with the caption. Owned! or pwned. Or you might be in this bedroom sitting on this guys lap in a room with some blank cds, and some cereal. You can still post pics if you want to put them in the "photo album."
Tara, ees, Isabel, Mrs. JB, and any other female posters here: Even if you are single, I would still NOT even consider posting your pic here - too many weirdos here! Damn - I have had many threads better than this one and this thing has not only been one of the weirdest of mine but it has had incredible staying power!
Manny, After reading the post directly above yours...I have to agree. There are too many weirdos, so I won't be posting my pic here anytime soon.
Manny, After seeing some of the pictures posted on this site as well as some of the men on this board's comments, I'm thinking that I would be MORE than scared to post my photo!
I learned my lesson when I first joined the board - I got chopshopped. No more pics on the board for me.
