Well, the reason why I said "risque", is that another woman in the office wore something similar (her skirt was a tad shorter) and she was getting some of the dirtiest looks you can imagine. Although no one told her not to wear that, she felt so much tension that she has never worn that outfit again. But I also wonder that if women wear stuff like this, but claim that they are not attracting attention, would they get mad if someone said they looked nice? I guess I am thinking of extreme examples or maybe I am just in one of those weird moods or maybe both. [/B][/QUOTE] Manny - I agree with Mrs. JB (and, yes I am a female). Skirts and knee-high boots is a current fashion trend (I actually am wearing that today and the irony is kind of freaking me out.....). I feel that any time a woman wears a skirt they "turn heads" more than usual. Pants have become so commonplace, that a skirt now denotes "dressing up" which I think, man or woman, makes people focus on you a bit more. As for the husband issue, I am curious to hear how many spouses/significant others/boyfriends/girlfriends pick out each other's outfit for each day....? And I have NEVER heard of a woman who would get mad if someone said they looked nice!!
Damn, B-Bob, is that thing even alive?? Thanks for the laugh. Hey, that is what I am here for - to make you people laugh (but not like B-Bob and A-Train can).
I've always preferred FMP's, myself. Reminds me of a great line from a great movie: 'Cool Hand Luke': [size=-2](As woman in bikini washes car in front of chain gang)[/size] Fellow prisoner: "Aw man! She don't know what she's doin'!" Dragline: "Boy, that girl knows exactly what she's doin'." -- droxford
So funny, so true. Anyhoo, Maybe this thread goes way above and beyond the MacB, "would you date a p*rn star thread." This thread has potential. My take is, she can wear whatever the hell she wants, long as she performs in the work place. That is what it really comes down to for me. People maybe be looking at her, but maybe when you guys look at her, you guys will notice she is doing a damn good job in her cubicle (or a bad job.) You know her husband is banging her every single night. Unless he is some corporate joe schmoe who only cares about his CEO job. She is wearing that outfit cause she wants a young man like ManRam. Her looking damn good like that is just icing on the cake. It's the whip cream of it all.
the chic I've been seeing is always wearing g strings under her clothes to work or wherever but she was always wearing tight jeans so you already know...But they wouldnt be sticking out of her back like i see skanks doing these days. Anyway I always check her sometimes in the morning and whenever i feel like it I stick my hand back there to give her a hard time and have fun too. Yeah I think when a woman is in a relationship she should be able to love her self first you dont want one with self-esteem issues...
Oh man...I love it it when my wife wears stuff like this. Today she wore her knee high black leather boots with an above the knee skirt. It doesn't bother me that other guys might notice her. Unless they don't have a pulse or are blind, I wouldn't expect otherwise. We have love and trust in our relationship, and when she dresses sexy, it adds that much more spice to our marriage. I can't wait to get home today...now, if you'll excuse me, I have to email Tara.
BTW, I do take issue with guys that are undressing her with their eyes, trying to hit on her, or stalking her.
If your wife is hot and she dresses hot men are gonna undress her in their head. But like you said in your original post, if you have a strong relationship built on trust it shouldn't bother you. Now some guy's may take it too far and that's where she needs to involve her employer. Know that other men are lusting after YOUR wife should make you feel that much better about yourself, especially when you take her to bed.
I am referring to guys that take it too far. Nothing wrong with the whiplash efftect, but if they sit there and check her out, I usually position myself to where they see me and not her.
Wow, this thread sure gives me some insight into what some men are thinking...including my own FalconsTalon. I like looking attractive for my husband. There is a thin line between looking sexy and slutty, so I think I've mastered that in my dressing. I know that if my skirt were any shorter...that would not be appropriate for the workplace. I know that my husband trusts me, but it is only natural for him not to like the fact that others may be undressing me with their eyes. He may not condone it, but he knows it may happen. It helps that I work mainly with women and that the one man that gave me somewhat of a problem is nolonger employed here. To the thread's starter: That woman you work with probably knows that men think she is very desirable. Dressing sexy makes her feel good and her husband probably enjoys it too. There is always that thin line that people should not cross though. You may find her very desirable, but I think you are smart enough to watch for signs. She will let you know where to draw the line by her actions and by her words. Most happily married women will be kind and courteous, but men need to understand that does NOT mean she is willing to go any further. She may even flirt a little, but that still does not mean she is willing to cheat on her man. Men need to be careful in knowing where that line is drawn. Like I said, she will give the signs. Also, since she is happily married and you both have the same employer...it would be wise of you not to go there. Look, admire, be friendly...that's it. FalconsTalon, Thanks for the compliments, Darling. ILY, and I can't wait to see you after work!
Man, this thread is one for the books just for the best new nickname in a long time. ManRam, just for the record, I agree with Mrs. JB - it sounds like she is just dressing fashionably. Hey, at least you have something to look at in the office - shut up and be grateful!
