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How do you deal when your significant other gets checked out a lot in public?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Snow Villiers, Aug 28, 2016.

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  1. Deckard

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    Oh, to add to my earlier comment, could you post some pics, please? I want to refine my opinion!
     
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    It is what it is. I know when Im at the grocery store or somewhere where there is fine women all around, I check them out and cant help it. I try not to stare especially if they are with a dude. When im with my girl, who loves to wear spandex and workout wear, I catch dudes looking almost non stop. I have even had dudes catch me catch them and give me a sort of "not bad" type look.

    But for me it doesnt bother me. It only would if it were a guy who like followed us around just to stare at her butt or even tried talking to her in front of me. Other than that like stated above, I know shes with me.
     
  4. Fyreball

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    It doesn't really bother me. I catch guys checking out my wife all the time, especially if she's dressed up to go out or in yoga pants. My wandering eye has cut down dramatically since I've been with her, but every now and then, I still have to admire what's out there. No harm, no foul. It's only natural.
     
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    Whatever you do, just keep your cool, OP. (Unless some dude actually harasses your GF...that's more serious.) Don't make a big deal out of it.

    Highly attractive women (and men) are gonna get checked out a lot while out in public. That's human nature.

    It's one thing to check someone out, it's another to stare at them. Most men who've had a halfway decent upbringing and were sufficiently socialized know that it's rude to ogle and stare at women.
     
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    It changes the whole dynamic of the thread. It's up to you bro. You started the thread.

    Only half sarcastic. It can actually progress things a lot here, much more than the average "We want pics". As donkeypunch said:

     
  7. Sadat X

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    Hey, its ok to check out the menu even if you have already ordered your entree.
     
  8. Drexlerfan22

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    Where's that thread some guy started years ago, about his lady interrupting him from watching the superbowl, but he thought maybe he should just deal with it because "she's a 10"?

    And then when he eventually posted pics everyone was like "dude, you can do better than her, she's nowhere within shouting distance of a 10. She's like a 5. Don't put up with the crap you're describing."
     

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