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Is this enough to dump your GF?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by michecon, Sep 8, 2003.

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  1. michecon

    michecon Member

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    Or how will you take it as a man.

    Ok, long story make short. My GF and I were in some sort of dispute before we decided to put that aside and go out for a music event. She was driving. We stopped on the way at a gas station to fuel up. She asked me to pay and fuel up for her. I wasn't that cooperative, saying "you can do that yourself, wasn't you acting like you could do everything right by yourself just a moment ago?" She wouldn't budge, and closed her eye and waiting for me to make that gesture to satisfy her ego. I stepped out of the car, and onto the store to get some drink, thinking if I should just being nice and do that for her.

    When I stepped back out of the store. Alas, She's gone. She drove away and left me cold turkey there. I walked 3 miles back to her apt, to where my car was. Well, she did call me later saying that she was still upset of the argument we had before and did drive back some time later to the gas station but couldn't find me anymore (and she expected me to take taxi back home already.)

    But I'm still quite upset. I think of ending relationship right there. So my question to you: Is this enough to rattle you to dump her, or will you take it and look past it as a man?
     
  2. red

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    dump her.
     
  3. Friendly Fan

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    definitely dump her

    brotherman, you can't be having that



    no, that's unreasonable conduct for male or female. you don't drive off and leave your girlfriend/boyfriend ever. that indicates a very impulsive person who is likely to get worse, not better.
     
  4. don grahamleone

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    I wouldn't dump her because she left. I would end the relationship because of her attitude towards you. I'm trying not to make a judgement about her, but it sounds like she doesn't respect the things you do for her. Driving off would just be the straw that broke the camel's back.
     
  5. fba34

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    she deserves to have her pic put up on this bbs and photoshopped to death by our great ones.
     
  6. Gutter Snipe

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    BWAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    That's the funniest thing I ever heard! But yeah, I'd say dump her. Even better, get your make up sex on and then dump her.:D

    Oh yeah - and she needs to get photochopped too :D

    Btw, in the future you might want to consider being a gentleman. Buy the lady some freakin' gas!
     
  7. Rocket River

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    She had it planned since the second you guys left the apt.

    Dump her.

    Rocket River
    p.s. I doubt she came back . .. anytime soon maybe after she knew good and well that you had left . .. .. in actuality . . she might have been around the corner watching you and giggling her *ss off.
     
  8. GreenVegan76

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    I'm sure she had a perfectly good excuse, but I tend to agree with fba34 on this one.
     
  9. Cohen

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    Unless nature dealth you a band hand and made your soulmate a pure beotch, I'd also say 'end it'.
     
  10. michecon

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    Well, I don't believe she had it planned ahead of the time. Just that she has very strange approach/reactions to small mundane conflicts in a two person world. Sometimes, it can be totally unexpected, seems like she doesn't know where to draw the line. I mean she can be perfectly nice when she's not tickled off. Or if I can be a perfect gentleman at any minute, I guess we will largely be fine. I appreciate the times with her, but things like this just seems too much to bear.


    Hehe..I'll refrain myself from going there.
     
  11. MoBalls

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    One of my single buddies let this happen to him and he reconciled with this woman.....happened a year ago and she still treats this guy like crap.......idiot.....we told him to leave her......we still make jokes about that.....
     
  12. AroundTheWorld

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    How long have you guys been going out? Do things like this happen often? What was the dispute about? Did you act like a jerk in that dispute also?
     
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    Photoshop. Then email her result.
     
  14. Gutter Snipe

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    John Bobbitt would tell you to RUN! :eek:
     
  15. A-Train

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    Don't dump her!!

    Get one last sympathy f*ck.....THEN dump her....
     
  16. Sonny

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    Dump her...

    But first get the breakup sex, then take her out and leave her stranded somewhere... ;)
     
  17. Dubious

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    Hey this one's a wildcat. You can choose to ride the roller coaster
    of passion knowing you will inevitably crash and burn or you can choose to get off the ride.

    Even if you plan to bail you need to hang on for a touch of sweet revenge and I do mean pooper. Right Baqui?
     
  18. coma

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    Dump her, but make sure you do with style.

    Take her to a fancy restaurant, and after the meal, tell her you have to go out to the car to get her a gift. Take off, leaving her stranded without a ride, and with the bill.
     
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    That's classic. Love it.
     
  20. AroundTheWorld

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    That sounds like the perfect plan. Just make sure you get the makeup sex first. Do that, then do the thing with leaving her in the restaurant. And make sure she doesn't have money with her, either, when you leave her with the bill :D.
     

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