O.K. don't take this the wrong way but, I was watching the news and they had this teacher that had charges put on her for having sex with a younger boy that was I think 13 or something and she was like a lot older. As I'm sitting watching a show with my girlfriend whose age doesn't matter sees this young boy on TV and she continues to refer to him as a cutie. Well there was also a young girl on TV as well who I thought was a cute little girl. I had no perverted thoughts in my mind but I can’t say the same for her(my girlfriend.) I'm not sure of where or what age you draw the line between males and females being perverted or not. I think it’s unfair to males in our society who think younger girls/women are attractive and happen to be quite a few years older than they are. (No I’m not saying its o.k. to be attracted to kids.) But why is it that older women can go on and on about younger guys/men like it’s acceptable. What do you guys think about all this because if I was to start telling my girlfriend about how some young girls look like a hottie I would be labeled a major perv. I hope you guys understand what I’m trying to say here.
Well, first of all, I think there is a big difference between saying a 13 year old boy is a cutie and saying a 13 year old girl is a hottie.
He has a point here. Children can be labelled as being cute. Cute doesn't denote any physical attraction. Hottie on the other hand does.
All I know is that that 13-year-old boy must be one smooth mother****er. Is this the same one that knocked up his teacher, only to have her come back to him when she got out on parole?
Another thing, not to be sick or anything but some 13 year old girls are hotties. People develop at different ages.
It lies in the attitude. A 13 year old girl would have been preyed upon by a disgusting older man. A 13 year old boy is a badass in the minds of his peers because he scored with an adult, like a teacher.
Okay...don't know if i'm gonna make any points in this post or even if it's worth your read...but i think i'm gonna blab on for a bit anyways. I find it sometimes (being an 18 year old) that there ARE some pretty hot/cute 15 year olds that i find quite attractive, but i usually just say that "if i was younger i'd definately try and pursue something."...but the fact is...i think it would be a little awkward going out with somebody because they were hot...with any significant age difference, the two members of the relationships interests are quite different also. Of course while you get older, the differences lessen and end up not even being there. Like...a 25 year old can definately go out with a 22 year old and nobody thinks anything of it...but then when a 25 year old goes out with a 16/17 year old, it's definately creepy. You know the guy is only interested cuz of her body...and physical is NOT the only thing that should be considered in a relationship. Of course you wanna be attracted to them physically, but there should be much more. 13 year old kids can be "cute" and thats it. They are not "hotties"...they are kids...kids aren't hot...developed or not.
Are you talking about Mary Kay LeTourneau? She got knocked up, went to prison. Got paroled, got knocked up again, went to prison again ...by the same 13 year old boy
3814- "Hot" and "relationship material" are two different things. I guarantee you that there are 13 year-olds out there that, without knowing their age, you would think are hot. Some of them are physically grown women for all intents and purposes. Granted, once they open their mouth and the Pokemon chatter starts, (if your morals haven't already done it) physical appearance is negated, as you stated. Smokey- YEAH, that's her. That kid was my hero back in the day.
All right, I'm gonna go ahead and say something gross. This is a joke my friend made that I heard 2nd hand, so I don't know the circumstances around it. According to him, if there's grass on the field, game on. If not, then it's scrimmage time. I feel bad about myself for laughing at that, but oh well, I'll get over it.
i had a friend at my old job who went my the motto "old enough to bleed, old enough for me" needless to say we ragged him mercilessly for nearly a year after he said that... he really regretted slipping that one out.
