Earlier this morning I'm outside packing my car getting ready for Thursday to leave for college( its about 6 in the morning). While I'm packing my friends girlfriend shows up, she came for the sole reason to get in my bed. She pulled every move in the book, I felt pretty awkward and said I had to run to the post-office, (first thing that popped into my mind, ya that was weak) I called some other friends to get more info on this girl it turns out that she tried to get with down everyone of them also. Everybody turned her down even though I'd have to give her a 10 on my scale. Now normally I wouldn't even hesitant to tell a friend that his gal is kind of skanky or cheating on him but this is a totally differnt situation. This guy has not have much luck with girls in his life, I'm pretty sure that this is his first GF even though he won't admit it, I've known him since the 4th grade, and hes by far the quietest/shyest guy you will ever meet. Ever since I've known him I try to hook him up, but he always backs out in the last second. Myself and other friends are leaning towards keeping quiet. We all go to school out of Houston, he stays here so we think he will just find out on his own, nobody wants to ruin this for him. If this goes on for to long than I think I'll say something. Most guys we know agree with us but every female we know say's we're beeing jerks. Despite that I think everybody is going to keep quiet, is that wrong? if we end this one, given his background he might be 30 before he gets another oppurtinity again
If this guy is really such a good friend, you arent being a very good friend by keeping quiet. Skankho will hookup with someone, and who's to say she wont bring home something nasty for him to catch? He will find another, don't facilitate her screwing him around for fear that he will never find another. There is always a better woman out there for everyone.
What opportunity? To be deceived? Call me a girl, but I say tell him about your experience... not the others. Don't overwhelm him.
I'd agree with the girls who've posted already. You have to tell him. I don't see how he's better off dating a skank than no one at all.
If you're his friend you HAVE to tell him. If he doesn't believe you or gets mad at you, then let him know that she did the same with others. If he finds out from someone else that she tried to sleep with you, and he thinks you think she's attractive, and you don't tell him, he'll think you screwed her behind his back. Being honest is your best way to go.
I agree with your post but I find it hilarious that you wrote this and the next thing I saw was your sig.
Hmmm, how many 10's do you get a chance with? I say you and your friends should do her, make a tape of it, then bribe her with it and hook your buddy up with a nice girl.
Makes it easier to keep that good woman if you always remember... There's always time for lubricant! which leaves the question.... WWB99D?
Ask your friend if your girlfriend was trying to hook up with him would he tell you and if he says yes tell me. if he says no, he's a punk.
i won't be able to asses the situation w/o a pic of this trecherous woman. and her cell # just to be safe.
Suck it up and tell him. It's going to get ugly. But at least his eyes will be open and you'll know you did the right thing. He may be pissed at you but eventually he'll figure it all out. don't hit it tho'. you won't have a friend anymore. But even worse, you'll lose respect for yourself.
I think I'm similar to your friend. Nice, quiet, shy, few dates/girlfriends. I'd want to be told. I think you'd be doing more harm than good by not telling him. If he's afraid of not doing any better than skankho because of lack of success in the past, he's going to turn into a gelding that lets women walk all over him. Alot of the time the roles are reversed. Women are the ones getting walked on but it happens to men too. I say that the longer he stays with her, the less opportunity he has to get out and hook up with somebody he deserves. Tell him now. Let him move on. Don't let him waste any more time with skankho when he could be finding somebody better.
