That's the point. By engaging in discussions with our enemies, we actually avoided things like wars, invasions and occupations. Talking to our enemies worked a lot better during the cold war, than Bush's invasions have since then.
We had the technology to test underground but didn't want to do so in the early years because we wanted the Soviets to see how big a bang we could make... early version of "shock and awe" I guess. At any rate, we couldn't control what the Soviets were doing with their tests... and that whole Soviet nuclear power thing worked out well didn't it? And I'm not sure how 430 above ground tests between the US and the Soviets during the period form 1945-1962 advanced the nuclear power industry. Not to mention the 91 by other nations. http://www.johnstonsarchive.net/nuclear/atest00.html
the race made the technology. the race involved the tests although I doubt either of us want to do the numbers to see what the actual outcome was (if it is even possible), I think we can both agree that this is not even close to as bad as arming people who are fighting directly with our military.
Wrong. The development of nuclear power was not dependent on the nuclear arms race. In fact, the first nuclear reactor (Chicago, 1942) was built way before the first bomb. Other reactors were built at Hanford before the bomb existed. The technology of nuclear power is in no way dependent on the technology of nuclear bombs. Explain to me how an atmospheric test of a nuclear bomb provides information necessary for the development of nuclear powered submarines?
What history book have you been reading? While talking certainly doesn't hurt, the cold war only ended when we spent the Soviets into oblivion. Only then did their system come crashing down...along with the Berlin Wall.
You're describing a convenient myth spread by the Reagan acolytes... Not to mention Afghanistan, Solidarity, etc.
The History books that show that Gorbachev, reforms, discussions were at least equally a part of the collapse as the spending. The spending did play a part, but only part of it. Gorbachev and interior reforms, had as much to do with it as anything Reagan did.