thansk guys just broke up with my girlfriend... for alike 5 minutes ago.. Im in pAris she is in Sthlm but we broke up
well man there ya go. just be happy your in paris. i would love to be able to go somewhere like that. but dang it im a poor poor 24 year old punk : )
Go do something for somebody else. Take your mind off your own plight and do something good for someone else.
There are small children who live in hospitals and have terminal cancer. And this guy's moaning about his life? Get over it.
Sometimes, the only way to feel good about yourself is to make someone else look bad... and Ghettostar's tired of making other people feel good about themselves! Seriously, life will go on. And, honestly, you'll probably see much worse than you've seen so far.
You know, I was feeling down this morning, thinking about all the work I had to do before X-mas deadlines and then I watched the amazing Sportscenter story about a cerebral palsy kid who runs cross country. i'm the most jaded and cynical person in the world and even I got choked up by the story, nearly in tears while running on the treadmill at the gym.
When I hit rock bottom, it never helped for me to think about how bad other people's lives were. It just reassured me that life sucks for everybody. More depression. Here's what helped me when I hit rock bottom (in 1992): Walk. Left foot. Right foot. Quit thinking about things. Focus on the most basic things in life. Walk. Work. Eat. Sleep. Do it all over again tomorrow. Don't think about her. Don't think about how you feel. Don't think about life. Don't think. You're not qualified to think in your current mindset. Just do. After a while of this, it won't suck quite so bad. After you're no longer at rock-bottom, but still low... Focus on yourself. Think of a goal which is obtainable. Build a plan to reach that goal. Then pursue it with rage and vigor. You will find a whole new world of success and happiness this way. It keeps you busy, productive, self-constructive, keeps your mind off depressing stuff, helps the healing, and does fantastic things for your life. -- droxford
Whenever I feel like hell I think about all the good things that have happened in my life and I don't feel that way any longer. Well actually then I feel like absolute ****, but hey at least I'm accomplishing something by swaying my mood.
when i hit a low once, i focused on something i knew i could do and benefitted me-i worked out. the good thing abt that is it takes up time and it keeps your mind off of whatever is bothering you. plus you feel good about yourself. definitely work on daily things like eating, sleeping, etc. keeping busy is really helpful. doesn't matter what it is, small projects, volunteering, etc. anything is better than mopping around and dwelling on your problems. you're still so young, you've got a LONG way to go. one day, you'll look back at this time in your life and think how glad you stuck with it b/c you're so much happier now! i think everyone over 22 can say that. i know i can! my lows were also at age 19/20 and i'm 25 now. happy as can be, but not perfect-that's impossible. hang in there! and keep us posted!!
Hey what was that famous quote? Something like "Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all." Well I'm terrible at being sympathetic to other people, but yeah, just think of those sick children in the hospital or the children in foreign countries who can't afford proper housing or food...who have never loved a woman. What was that other quote? Oh yeah, "loving a woman is like signing an immediate contract with death." Hmmm, maybe that doesn't really relate, but yeah. I guess you feel bad and don't want to think about how "everyone else has it worse off than you" because it's impossible to know what "they" are going through without walkign through their shoes. Here's your (short-term) solution: Grey Goose uhh, not that I would know about it or anything...
Life can and does suck. I can think of a whole bunch of things that "suck" right now. Hopefully it will all make sense in the future, and I won't regret the things I've done, and I'll end up where I'm supposed to be. We just can't see very far beyond where we are at the moment. If that helps. If it makes you feel any better, you've got a whole bunch of clutchfans over here to commiserate with... we feel your pain. (I know, kind of a cliche) Relationships are often what make life "suck" so hard... yet, the only thing that sucks harder is not having one to worry about. Don't know why but that's the way it is. Unless you're one of those lucky people who can take your mind off of them. I think it's just the human condition. C'est la vie. We're all in it together.
You say you are lost and tired. Which is the body's way of telling you to rest and find yourself. Now that may be advice you rarely hear. But I would take it. Because once you are rested and find yourself. That is the body's way of saying I'm ready to move on and discover something new. Life is like that. Every once in a while you are asked to stop and take a look around. Some people need to do that longer than others. But I can guarantee you that we all get tired and we all lose direction. We all feel that way at points in our life. It's not a bad thing. It's not a good thing. It's just another part of you. One that you discovered. It's just a sign to stop and look around for a while.
Feel lost? Buy a map. Look for the "YOU ARE HERE" arrow. Feel tired? Try the other hand. Feel bored? Follow ONE guy through ClutchFans.net's forums and harass the sh*t out of him. Feel depressed? Hmmm... I don't have one for that. ----=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-------------------------------------- For real, though, go to your CHURCH.
