I had to tell myself that anything and everything I do will come back to haunt me in court, so I bit my lip. I did take my son for an eye exam because he was squinting looking at far distances. Turns out he needed a new prescription. My son was SOOO happy that we ordered him the correct prescription, and I got to tell her husband how much they owed me for the exam.
That's how I feel DD IRT to the control aspect of it. She has always taken advantage of my good nature and kind heart, and she tried again, saying things such as "If you were a good Christian" and "If you really want to do what's best for our son". I am hoping this does not get ugly, for my son's sake.
she's a member here? FT you should stop posting about this because there is no way it's not being read by her and the new husband.
You're doing the right thing, FT. I'm not sure I could do the same. It takes a lot of strength. I love my son very much and could not imagine being away from him...even 3 miles away.
So now, ex's husband thinks that I am going to be addressing him. He's the one that opens the door when I droped off my son Sunday night and last night...and last night, I asked him for the half of the eye exam payment from when I took my son to the eye doctor. He quoted the decree that they have 30 days...lmao. How petty can things get. What pissed me off is that the new prescription glasses have been ready since Tuesday, but he said they won't pick up the glasses until the weekend...and this is because they live less than a mile away from where the glasses are waiting for him... I have half a mind to go get them and take them to him at school. Anyone care to take a guess at her reaction when she gets served the motion to modify? If she calls, I think I will let Tara talk to her...or would that be wrong?
I think I would just give her my lawyers number and hang up. What's to talk about? Let the lawyers handle it.
I wouldn't discuss anything with the husband. You don't have to. Period. If he answers the door and you need to discuss a medical bill or whatever, ask for her. If she will not talk to you about it, document it because she HAS to discuss the kids with you. In the past when I had doc bills that I needed reimbursment for, I scanned copied into the computer and emailed the request for payment so that I have a copy of everthing.
i was just thinking she could get a head start on your plans and would know your inner thoughts and strategies for all of this mess.
underoverup, I believe FT isn't doing anything wrong by posting his personal stuff here. He's doing his best for his son, and he isn't bad-mouthing anyone... that DOESN'T deserve it. EDIT: I just saw meggo's response. Good point, ma'am. Are you comparing Tara to your X's hubbie? Don't make me laugh, man! She's only playing basketball for the team every other night?
Yeah, I'll be refering any questions she has to my attorney. I won't be saying another word to her husband. I just don't want my son to have to deal with any of this. I don't care about getting any payback. I haven't cared about that for awhile. I am concerned with my son's well being, and some of the crap the have pulled recently does cause me to be concerned.
