Friends with benefits is the way to go if you're not looking for marriage just yet. That way us guys won't have to deal with those girlfriends who wants to wait till marriage. It's so weird when I hear about women not wanting it (before/during/after marriage) since I thought women wants it just as much as men. Besides don't girls get better orgasms? They should want it more with the kind of orgasms I see on my down time in the internetz.
i wonder how the uber-religious guys who sign an abstinence pledge REALLY feel about waiting until marriage...I guess God's opinion is enough to make them keep it in their pants, but if a guy is 23-24-25 before getting married and getting any, how can that not drive him nuts? Is it easier to abstain from secks if you've never had it?
God made human beings to be horny so we can multiply. Otherwise, men like DD will just sit and watch basketball games.
HAHAHA... TMI Deckerd...and just to be clear, all relationships shouldn't be based on secks...if it is, when that's gone/slowed down, you find out you really have nothing in common...to me, secks is better when both people have feelings/care about each other and understand each others needs...even if you lie about it, its still effective... and i have no idea how guys abstain...DOES NOT COMPUTE!!!
BFFs is not possible because eventually . . .they will be giving it to someone else. and that will lead to a bunch of awkward questions that the answers would prohibit friendship . . . IMO Rocket River
I think it's definitely possible for a limited amount of time, like until marriage or until "she's ready", but to decided from the beginning that there will be no sex at all, now or ever? I think it's highly unlikely that would work....maybe if the two people involved have been brought up in a very controlled environment and continue to be in one, then maybe they could avoid putting themselves in "sexual" situations, like seeing each other naked, for example. If they can't avoid those situations, then i'd think human instinct would kick in and it would unravel from there, in one direction or the other.
Well that is kind of different...but good for you for staying loyal to your women...especially if she is carrying your baby. I reckon i can go without sex for 10 month too. I mean at least i know there is a time limit. Like if my partner became pregnant and doctors orders were not to have sex while the pregnancy. I think i could do it. But to stay in a marriage/relationship WITHOUT sex every again?....HELL NO
