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Sexless relationships

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Lady_Di, Sep 22, 2010.

  1. nickb492

    nickb492 Member

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    Really?
     
  2. mogrod

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    Well, I guess sometimes I get annoyed at the general stereotype that ALL men would just up and cheat.

    Besides, if these relationships really are as happy and loving as they are claiming to be, who are we to judge them? I like to get down and dirty as much as the next guy but, just because a couple doesn't value sex as much as most, I won't look down on them for it. In this day in age, if they can live a happy life together, with or without sex... good for them.
     
  3. Rocket River

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    Game Over
    Time to take off the uniform . . . .

    she got what she wants. . . a marriage. . . now she can stop pretending i guess.

    Rocket River
     
  4. juicystream

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    For serious. Perhaps I have low libido? Maybe its because I was submissive to women before and now I'm extremely dominant. Who knows.
     
  5. SwoLy-D

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    What about to men? Are you submissive to us now? :confused:

    Now I gotta go pee. :(
     
  6. sammy

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    Maybe the stream isn't as juicy as we expected :eek:

    I can always make time for it but I also don't have much stress in my life (knock on wood)..
     
  7. rrj_gamz

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    not enjoy secks? WTF!! j/k...everyone has their own issues to overcome...but c'mon too busy for secks? WFT!!! not kidding...i'm late to functions/airport because of the secks...anytime, anyplace...but that's just me...

    p.s. Still waiting for Prince and his 10 year secksless relationship/have kid with roomate story...
     
  8. Lady_Di

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    i apologize for offending anyone that i jumped to the assumption that men cheat if they don't get some from their women... it is possible that some men won't cheat if they don't get it for a while.

    im not ignoring the fact that a man needs it, biologically.
     
  9. Prince

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    well, it was a long distance relationship... we started dating right after we graduated middle school. then we went to different colleges in different cities so we ended up meeting once or twice a year only. after i graduated college, i got a job in Singapore and she went to law school in London.

    after she graduated law school, she told me that she can't ba a good mother and good wife anymore and she decided to split. was soooo confused what she meant by that. then i found out that she was seeing another woman. i thought was a going to feel bad learning that but it was the opposite. i was like, can we arrange a 3some? :)...

    we're still in good terms up to now...
     
  10. Cohete Rojo

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    WTF? Why would you marry someone who does not want to have sex? Wouldn't that defeat making babies and raising a family?
     
  11. Steve_Francis_rules

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    Some people don't want to have sex before they are married, but are perfectly fine with sex after marriage. That's what he's talking about.
     
  12. dbigfeet

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    Thats what i am talking about. end thing on extra good terms :p
     
  13. SwoLy-D

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    :( That's messed up. And you're such a good singer and can make some great songs (I like "Little Red Corvette", by the way)... and she still didn't want to stay with you!?!!?!? What a B*!!! :mad:

    Keep your head high, sir... and keep making great music!
     
  14. EssTooKayTD

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    Uh, wow. So many stories are running through my head right now. I dated this girl for a while, and she was really a nasty freak. She just loved to get down with sex all the time. She was like, any time of day, she was like...Yeah, let's go. I'm so nasty! And I'd be nailing her. She'd be like...Oh, you're nailing me. Cool.
     
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  15. Hayden_SFC

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    I don't see the big deal.
    I think it would certainly be possible to be in a long term relationship and not have sex often. Is that common, probably not.
    But I mean, maybe sometimes sex doesn't control your relationship.
    Maybe I'm a fckn idiot(saved you some time)...but I'd like to think that relationships are deeper than when, and if you have sex.

    Whatever. :cool:
     
  16. Lady_Di

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    I get you but not having sex for a year? that's a bit crazy. i'd get it if its for a month.
     
  17. weslinder

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    I knew someone who had a sexless marriage. She quit giving it up. He tried to stay with her, but they eventually got a divorce.
     
  18. Lady_Di

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    could it have been just "friends" relationship?? i don't think i would be in a relationship where i only saw my bf once a year.
     
  19. mateo

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    Look, there has to be a reason the escort business is rocking on Craigslist, and apparently we now have a reason: Elle magazine recommends sexless relationships.
     
  20. SwoLy-D

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    :eek: That's what she s---uhhh, not appropriate... [shakes head]
    Don't save us time, sir. :eek:
     

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