Didn't we already go through this? It's: "RABDARGAB. Read a Book. Do a Report. Get a Buck! It's easy!" OR WTF is up with all those "KKK" references, man? We don't tolerate that iSht here.
ok..... I have to say that last night I went through one of the worst experiences of my life. I went out with my significant other to do some karaoke, and spend some quality time with her. Mind you, I didnt want to go out at all, and I wanted to stay in as I have been feeling extremely bad lately (tooth ache), but I wanted to do it for her since she loves it. The whole night I dedicated everything to her. I hugged on her, told her she was beautiful, and how much I loved her. I brought her up on the stage in front of everyone, sat her down on a chair, and sang "Your Song" to her. I intended to make her the princess or queen of this place. The time was around 12:30, and there was still sometime left to sing. I go up to the karaoke girl, and I ask her to put me down for a couple more songs. About this time, two young women behind me reached in my back pocket, and I turned around, smiled, and told them to stop. Another minute passes, and they did it agian. This is where everything went awry. She saw them do it, and she leaps up and starts hitting these girls. Que a bar room brawl. Tables, chairs, glasses breaking, blah blah blah. Here come their boyfriends. They are about to swing at my fiance, and I leap in front of her to protect her, taking hard blows on my back. She mis-construes this as me "defending" the pocket feelers, and she begins to punch me in my face. My mouth starts bleeding, and she nearly knocks me out. I pull her outside, and she starts calling me a "cheater", for letting them "touch my ass" She then starts to hit me more, and throws my ring into the dumpster. Telling me I am the biggest ******* that ever graced this planet. Takes off running down the street, and even more hell breaks loose (too much to describe) I ended up making my way back to the bar to get my car, and the bartenders, bouncers, owners pull me aside. They said that I did nothing wrong, and didnt deserve for her to hit me the way she did. They were nice enough to pull my ring from the dumpster, but they also told me (adrenaline kept me from realizing) that numerous people counted the blows she gave me (15 to my face and head). I cannot believe this. I am so shocked, dissapointed, and hurt. I love her so much, and feel so bad right now. I didnt mean to disrespect her, as everyone in that place knew she was the love of my life. sorry to type so much (trying to fight back tears)....it really is refreshing to get these things out.
Whoa. Looks like I logged in precisely at the right time. That's too much goin on for me to comment on, I'll sit back and reply later, but I look forward to hearing everyone else. Although I do think you shoulda restrained your girl before she went off hitting these other girls and maybe pulled her outside and explained to her your side of things and how they were (most probably) trying to jack you.
Good Lord... So sorry, man. It sounds like your GF has some serious anger management issues that she needs to work on. I'm sorry that you are dealing with this...sounds like you are solid guy who happens to be in love with someone with some SERIOUS issues. best of luck
I'm sorry, but she's a lunatic. That's like time of month times 1000. Did you see signs of psychotic jealousy before?
Not to mention that things were already screwed up enough to start this thread before last nights shenanigans. Let her go.
Wow, they found your ring in Dumpster. That's good! You can pawn it. Sounds like my guy's previous ex before me. Let her go. You don't need a girl who punches you in the face. WTF? I would understand if she caught you in bed with another girl but that's not the case here. There are better women out there.
I guess someone has to love people like that. It just so happens to be you. It's easy for us to say leave her but if you love her that much... But if that's how she normally acts, how did you get around to loving her so much. Anyway, my advice... leave her.
If you think you love her, especially after that, then maybe you don't know what love is and means. People throw around that word too nonchalantly. Do you actually love her? I don't know...maybe, sure. Maybe you really fear her? If you really do love her, you need to sit her down, tell her that her behavior is unacceptable and that she needs help and you're willing to help her through it, and that if she can't she what she did as wrong, can't apologize, can't work herself to become a better person, than it doesn't matter how much you love her, you won't be able to live with her. if you really love her, maybe you have to let her go??
Wait just a damn minute. Why would your wife think you were protecting the other girls when you jumped in front of her while two men were about to hit her? So two men and your wife basically ganged you? Get rid of her, 15 punches to the face. What an embarrassing night.
Wait a second. You sang "Your Song" to her? You probably triggered a flashback to the last thirty seconds of this: <object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/uxYd2E-otQk&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xcfcfcf&feature=player_embedded&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/uxYd2E-otQk&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xcfcfcf&feature=player_embedded&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>
if your smart, you would toss that girl in the dumpster. Selfish, crazy, abusive, possessive http://i126.photobucket.com/albums/p99/MadDogFargo/redflags.jpg
Any chick who can start and then handle herself in a bar fight sounds like a keeper. After you get married, come back and post often to tell us how it's going.
Couldn't agree more with the above. I've been through it. An old GF got abusive with me at a Rockets game, of all places. She sat pinching me, even drawing blood, because she was mad at me because she wanted to leave. [There were 2 minutes left in the game with the Rockets up by just a few....I bought the tickets; I wasn't going anywhere.] There's more too it than that, but this isn't my story. I'd dated her for three years and went through all sorts of jealous, possessive, insanity. This was the proverbial straw breaking the camel's back. There's NO excuse for getting physical, from either party. Get OUT.
