i went that route in my mid-late 20's. you probably won't listen but this is the best advice anyone can give you... stop gambling.
That's okay. The general rule for gambling is....you're only supposed to gamble with money you can afford to lose. So, since you can afford to lose $5800, you'll be just fine. .. of course, you DID follow the rule, right?
did you lose $5800 gambling? Or did you lose that in buying prizes for people and not taking a rake for a game at home?
What did you lose it on? Cash or tournament? What stakes do you usually play? How much of your bankroll is $5800?
well, if you ever need more money, look for the Legitimate Businessman's Social Club. Ask for Uncle Tony.