Oh man, I can't even imagine what it would be like to hear that news right now. I'm so sorry to hear that, ima. Condolences to you and your wife.
My condolences are with you and your family, ima_drummer2k. Never lose hope, for this too shall pass.
Similar situation happened to my cousin in December. My prayers sure do go out to you in your tough time.
It wasn't that long ago my first was born. I can't imagine getting so close and losing him. That would have destroyed me. Stay strong, ima. You and your wife. I'll say a prayer for you both.