Interesting situation. Do you still want to be with her or are you confident in the split up and ready to move on? I just split with my fiance of 7 years and if she hit me up with that info I don't how I would react, and in my situation, how I should react. Hope it turns out to be nothing!
I'll be praying for her lots RM95. I'm hopeful it will be nothing. For what it is worth, it shows the kind of guy you are that 6 months after the split you aren't bitter.
If she called me right now and said that she wanted to work it out, I'd do it in a heartbeat. That said, I'm not trying to get her back or anything like that. I told her that I'd be there for her whatever she needs and offered to go to her appointment with her. Other than that, I'm pretty excited about my life right now. I'm living in a kickass house that includes a pool, jacuzzi, theatre room, the Sunday Ticket, Center Ice, three HDTVs, and a pool table. My roommates and I get along perfectly. Not a night goes by that I'm not bowled over with tears streaming down my face because we're constantly bouncing jokes off each other. We're actually writing a screenplay, which will never go anywhere, but the beginning stages have been awesome. It's really been a great time in my life, which is really amazing all things considered.
that sounds a lot like my house but with my family and one friend that rents a room from us. I wish your ex the best Nd I think the way you are handling the situation speaks volumes about your character. Email me through the board sometime and I'll meet you to pay off that bet.
RM95, Definitely sending her good thoughts. Seems like I met y'all just last year but it's been a while. Even if this turns out to be scary, the great, great news is that compared to all other cancers, the medical community is getting a great handle on dealing with breast cancer. I know that through plenty of anecdotes, but also having heard recent stats and reports. I think the bottom line for these things now is: if you've found the lump, and it's not huge, you are already in pretty good shape.
