I've told my wife that I loved her within a month of knowing her. Actually, we talked about marriage within a month of knowing each other. I think the key is to wait until you know for sure she feels the same way about you. Actions speak louder than words, so you will know when. Otherwise its just awkward for her to know you love her and for her not to feel the same way towards you. It's alot of pressure for her.
From experience, I feel that the woman should always say it first. It seems more important to them, and besides, shouldn't the woman be more about expressing their feelings. Don't get me wrong. There are times when I know, as a guy, that you're dying to tell her how you feel. However, if a woman feels that way about you, they can't keep it a secret as long. Even if a woman has strong feelings for you, saying I love You to her before she is ready will typically scare them away. If you're in love, express it by your actions. She'll either fall for you, or it wasn't meant to be.
Don't. Ask yourself "Why do I want to say this? Why do I want to share this? Why am I using words for this? " Then, just grab him and kiss him. Nuzzle. Rub noses, nose to cheek. Tell him to whisper something in your ear, while you bite his ear, and his neck. You should get what you want. If he asks "what was that for?" You can answer "It was just a feeling I had". Squeemish readers can insert the opposite sex above.
This won't have much application for OS, sorry. Advice I heard once specifically for men, which my wife thought was very good, was to not tell a woman that you loved her unless you were ready to marry her. The reasoning there is that women fall for the 'I love you' line too easily and take it for more of a promise than what it really is. So, if you're going to put a woman on that mindset, you should be ready to make the real promise. Men aren't really the same way about it though. In a gay relationship, though, I wonder if it might take on more meaning, since marriage is (currently) unavailable. I don't know.
It's kind of funny that so much can be tied to that simple phrase. Why can't some people just, I don't know, feel it, or sense it?
You know, I'm SO SICK of hearing that crap...I'm more of a do as I say, not as I do kinda guy... IMO, two months is way too early, however, not knowing how well you've clicked, it may not be...With V-Day coming up, that may be the time as its the perfect opportunity to let her know how you truly feel... I just told someone how I felt, and didn't use the "L" word, and I don't mean Lesbian either... but seriously, I may be sick of hearing the "action" cliche, but its actually true... Good Luck...
Only time to use the L word .... Sure you caught me having sex with her..but it's just sex.. I mean it's not like we're talking about an actual game..we talkin' bout sex. I love you baby, I just like to have sex with her.
