As some may remember, I went through the same thing last year. Trust me, I was a wreck for at least four months. But luckily, I've found someone else, and I've never been happier in a relationship. Take this time to improve yourself, that's what I did, and it has worked wonders. ------------------ www.swirve.com...The reason Al Gore invented the internet.
Broken hearts... it'll make a whimp outta ya. Somebody once said that the only thing that cures a broken heart is time, and I think they're right (unless a fine chick just happens to wander by and really like you, then time ain't so important). All I can say is stay active. Hang out with friends. Don't have idle time to dwell on it. The more you sit around doing nothing, the more time you have to think about it, and the more time you have to think about it, the more it's gonna hurt. Move on... my guess is that a few months or years down the road, you'll get a chuckle out of the whole thing, and that's about it. At least that's what's happened to me. ------------------ "Ive seen more class at a Pig Humpin Contest ." -- moestavern19 makes headlines again, and in the process leaves little doubt as to what Saturday nights in his hometown of Lompoc, California are like.
Man's right. I totally feel you man. Course, I'm not quite to where I can chuckle about the whole thing, but...good luck man. ------------------ Jazzkiller
Cheer up RKMAN...we all go though it mate. Two tips: 1. Don't sit around and think all day about what she's up to. Like, don't sit their thinking "I bet some guy is shagging her senseless" etc. Just focus on the FACT that this now means their is someone else out their for you...and look forward to the time when you meet that someone. 2. Be excited...seriously, your life is a journey and this just means that a new chapter is about to begin. Who knows what will happen? Think of all the cool things...don't dwell on the negatives. I once split up with a girl and was really down. Looking back on it now, if that had NOT of happened, I would have never met my wife who I compleltely love. It was the best thing to ever happen to me. I know all this sounds cliched...but just let time heal the wounds and you'll get over it mate. ------------------
Ahh this is perhaps the most important thing. Get out now and keep your mind busy with something else. Take your buddy's out on a 'date' to the rockets game now that you don't have to spend it on her. I have one if you need one. j/k Email RocketsPimp, im sure he has a couple extra ... ------------------ Nice guys finish last ... and im surely not going to finish last! [This message has been edited by Space Ghost (edited February 24, 2001).]
thanks for caring guys, yeah, it's gonna take a while. Dr of Dunk, ur'e right, i am a whimp now, before i was unemotional, now, i'm too emotional, it'll take a while for me to be restored. thanks a lot for the tips guys ------------------ RKMAN Proud believer of the 2001 World Champion Houston Astros.
my girl left me, she said she wasn't ready for a serious relationship, i feel so bad inside now, she was so precious to me, i still don't understand what happened, i loved her with all my heart, i'm miserable without her ------------------ RKMAN Proud believer of the 2001 World Champion Houston Astros. [This message has been edited by RKMAN (edited February 24, 2001).]
ahhh... welcome to the world of relationships. don't dwell on it get back on that bicycle. who wants to be tied down anyway? rH ------------------ The Psychedelic Groove House of Rockets Basketball Love! Come and chat with us on game nights in CC.net chat!
