Help [Relationship issue]

Any other day, peeps be all over this and stuff.

 

You really don't have an attraction for her even though she's good to you. Boobs and booty don't always make a woman.
Be honest with her. Thats all you can do. Don't say its because she doesn't boobs and butt but be honest. We would prefer yall be honest with us. It may hurt but lies are what makes us crazy.
Tell her how you feel. She may not like it but will respect honesty.

 

(I havent read any of the big Hangout hot topics of late, so....)

The not thinking she's sexy will NEVER go away. EVER. Don't continue on, don't lead her on.

Yeah you are an a-hole and superficial. And good girls shouldnt have their child bearing years wasted by a-holes

You got a good girl but let HER find a good man who will respect her appearance. Which aint you, chap. You'll have to get burned by the next girl to realize what you had, but at least you'll have fun doing it.

And while waiting until you're past 25 to get serious and get married can be overrated, you might need to do that.

 

Post her picture and we can tell you if the problem is yours or hers.

 

keep her, dont tell the truth, thatll ruin everything and your friends are just waiting to f*** her. if they're saying shes cute. wait a while, feel it out. get all that promiscuous(misspelled, i know swoly.) stuff out the way.
real talk, are you serious w/ her if not gtfo that relationship. cuz in the end u will have pitty and stick around. imho

 

exactly.


But really...if youre not feeling it then youre not feeling it. Move along.

or, if you are a real playa. You'd date her but bang numerous other girls on the side while making an ass of yourself and posting pictures of them online.

 

this calls for sck advise time.

 

Give it some time, the attraction may grow. But if it doesn't, let her go.

There is a difference between being a superficial horndog and recognizing what you are attracted to. Which one is it? If you just aren't attracted, then keeping this going isn't fair to you OR her.

I prefer a girl with nice legs. Everyone like something different. Girls are the same way. You think this girl would be with you if she wasn't attracted to you? No way.

 

Agreed.

 

Love never dies unless the thing you love about that person dies.
You didn't say you loved her at first.
But nowadays that doesn't mean anything. My ex told me he loves me but cant see himself being with me. Yet and still he calls me every single day. It hurt, but I respect his honesty.
Seems the same way with you. Don't lead her on. Be real.
But don't pass her up for a someone with a badonkadonk and a stank attitude.
And if your not a super good looking guy like you say then she loves you for whats on the inside. Think about it.

 

i say keep her. sounds legit.
if u get bored with it, Ricks stays open late!
you'll blow all you dough n be like "*****!!, i was better off at home."
i go thru that faze once every two weeks.
lulz :grin:


not really..

 

Like someone else said, any other day and you would have plenty of help

 

That's what SHE said.

 

Don't stay with a girl you aren't attracted to. You'll be unhappy and so will she. That kind of misery is worse than any breakup.

 

currently on the spacecitykid thread, pretty awesome epicalness going on. may distract u from your problems.

 

get out of it. dont tell her the real reason why b/c it may destroy her self-image and she may come down with orthorexia nervosa.

you will never be attracted to her if you arent now. i was stuck in a similar situation in college. everyone is superficial to a certain extent esp. guys. you're young. sleep around and have some fun. hang out with SpaceCityKid.
don't think about serious relationships til you've experienced girls a bit more. otherwise, you might end up cheating on their wife later on.