My girlfriend went to sixth street one weekend for vacation and got drunk and boned a guy. She felt so bad about it and that it "just happened" so she confessed and told me. It sucked but it happens.
I can't comprehend a lot of the responses in this thread. Is it really so hard to be away from your significant other for a few weeks that you contemplate cheating or worry about your partner doing so? Crazy trust issues. I can't even imagine even wanting to be with anyone other than my boyfriend. A long separation just makes me value our relationship even more.
kinda went through the same thing not too long ago.... back in houston working after graduation, GF still in san marcos. visited each other every 2-3 weeks, had some great sex... then come to find out she started "dating" another guy in san marcos for a few months while i was away, which a)floored me and b)royally pissed me off. so i'm not saying your girl is cheatin' on ya..... but, she probably is.
She's cheating...girls, are just like guys, hoes...they can't help it...They need affection and attention too... YOu're still young, so don't do the ultimatum, or your toast...
Do you have any evidence that she's cheating? I mean she should be able to go out and party even if you aren't there. If you do find she's cheating though, dump her first. Feels better if you are the dumper and not the dumpee.