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flirting

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by chow_yun_fat, Feb 13, 2008.

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is it ok to flirt?

  1. yes, i love to flirt

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  2. no, you are a cheater!!!

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  3. i don't care either way

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  1. chow_yun_fat

    chow_yun_fat Member

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    is it ok to flirt with others when you have a significant other? no physical contact, just words.
     
  2. Deckard

    Deckard Blade Runner
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    Sure. I do it all the time and we've been married 30 years. Monday was our anniversary.
     
  3. KePoW

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    to me, I've always thought that anything is ok unless it's physical. words don't really mean anything

    once you do something physical, then it's cheating
     
  4. Yaozer

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    No I never flirt. The only person I do it with is my gf.. and nobody else!




















    (man i'm so getting major brownie points when she reads this! yuss!)
     
  5. g1184

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    Don't matter where you work up your appetite, as long as you come home for dinner.
     
  6. percicles

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    Yeah but sometimes I can't wait, so I pull into Taco Cabana.
     
  7. Davidoff

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    Not unless you want to be known as "the creepy guy".. That's what a few ladies around the office tell me about a couple of the married guys that try to flirt with them.. I think it's disrespectful to the person you're with, but I know I'm in the minority with that one..
     
  8. pippendagimp

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    chicks who flirt are a waste of time - either she wants it or she doesn't.....for them flirting is no different than chutes n ladders, dominoes, scrabble, connect4, etc, etc.....however if she wants to play twister then i might be game..
     
  9. Major Malcontent

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    I'm a big flirt. I do differentiate between flirting and out and out hitting on somebody. I can be reasonably flirtatious in a manner that would be acceptable if my girlfriend, the person I am flirting withs boyfriend/husband or father were around. If you have someone or they have someone and you say something that would get you in serious trouble with your SO or punched out by their SO then you are over the line.
     
  10. ima_drummer2k

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    Depends on what you mean by flirting. I may do it if the person doesn't know I'm with someone. I would NEVER act on it, but there's nothing wrong with stroking your ego a little bit every now and then. It's good for the self esteem. :)

    There was a funny King of Queens on about this last night. When that waitress hit on Kevin, so he started wearing cologne and dressing up when he went out with his wife. I can relate.
     
  11. bladeage

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    Its only ok if the girl you are flirting with, doesn't know you have a girlfriend/wife.
     
  12. rubytuesday

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    i agree with you on this one.
     
  13. MadMax

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    Seriously...Clutch is trying to clean this place up. Stop using sophisticated euphemisms for your pee pee.
     
  14. rusHour

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    this is what ive come to learn after many, many Xs against me. many people have different opinions on the matter but if your other dosnt like it, dont do it.
     
  15. Lil Pun

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    No comment.
     
  16. meggoleggo

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    I flirt - but I only flirt with people I know that they know nothing's ever going to happen. EVER. That way signals never get crossed and tricky situations never evolve because of anything that was said.
     
  17. Lady_Di

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    I don't really flirt when I have a significant other. The guys usually do the flirting and I just give them a smile if I'm amused. Last thing, I want to give them the wrong signal. But then, If I even smile, they think I want to get in their pants.
     
  18. No Worries

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    It really depends on the girl.

    For some women, treating them nice (like acting interested in what they say) is full fledged flirting.

    For other women, anything short of doing it is not flirting.

    These are the extremes. I suspect most women are OK with mild flirting from SOed men. They know it is not going anywhere and are a bit flattered with the attention.
     
  19. thegary

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    the only thing i like better than flirting is stroking my ego, if you know what i mean.
     
  20. No Worries

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    I got to see that smile ;) You might need to register that smile as a dangerous weapon with the government ;)*


    * I married so the above flirting is by definition innocent :D
     

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