missed a few pages along the way until this was brought up again. Didn't you say that this was someone that posted here?....
What my boyfriend's old boss in Dallas told him after he found out I lived in Houston: "So do you have a girlfriend up here too? Always nice to have a couple on the side."
If I'm not mistaken the culprit was Latin. This sort of elaborate cheating is common with Latin men. In fact the whole melodrama of crying is standard protocol back home. If you think about it it's not that suprising. It sux though. I know when I was living in Buenos Aires I had a discussion on cheating with my female friends and all of them -I mean ALL of them- upon asking what they would do if thier man cheated responded "la ama? Con tal que no la ame lo perdono." Translation: Does he love her? If he doesn't love her I can forgive him. Talk about cultural differences.
No, he isn't a poster here. finalsbound, i agree with you that girls cheat too but damn not like that...i am not sure if a girl can pull this off! I know I wouldn't live with myself if I was doing that. This guy doesn't have a heart. i seriously think this guy has some psychological issues. i can't stress enough how good he was at lying or manipulating, especially with his crying/sobbing act. percicles: Yes, he is Mexican...he did the crying part with the gf and her parents. what a joke. I wasted my 4 months on him...
Actually, it only took him one **** up. He left his wallet out there on my desk and took a look when he wasn't in the room....found an address on a 24 hour fitness application that I didn't recognize. I never went through his stuff before...never had a reason until that day. I went to hcad.org to see who owned that house. You know the rest of the story. Stalkerish? Maybe but I'm DAMN GLAD I did that or I would have been still under his spell. Yeah, I need someone to help me to drown my sorrows in....ALCOHOL.
the stakler part was a joke. BUt that is some dang nice research work. You should open up a business on the side. jager bombs it is
Don't start drinking. That's the worst. My gilrfriends start drinking and that's followed by the whole "why did he do that?" crying and finally the inevitable drunk call that results in them taking them back or just cussing them and making idiots out of themselves. I'll tell you what I tell all of them. Channel your anger/sorrow and hit the gym like a mofo. Exercise releases endorphines and that makes you happier. Plus, you end up loking hotter and that always pisses guys off.
I'm sorry to hear that. At least you have that older guy at work to fall back on . Drinking is not the answer, it'll probably just make things worse by making you do stupid things you shouldn't be doing. Just be glad the whole episode is over.
If you are attractive? Pretty much. Men really don't hang around women for their conversation. Hell, a lot of women don't do it, themselves.
Geez... that's horrible. I am glad that you found out now and didn't invest 7 years of your life on this loser like the other woman did!! Like FB said, a lot of guys suck and have a one track mind, and it ain't the "be faithful to one woman" track. It's time to regroup and find a great guy without the drama. Of course, I can't say that I have found one yet, but it never hurts to be optimistic.
I have no answers in respect to relationships. I have only two requirements (apart from the usual: ability to carry on conversations that are interesting to both, physical attraction, excellent taste in music, not too loud or chatty, incredible blowjobs, etc...). those two are: honesty faithfulness those are the two things that, if broken, break a relationship for me. Anything else I view as potentially fixable. Those two if broken, for me, are not
A women doesn't have to be beautiful. If they're persistent and know how to have fun, nature will do the rest.
looking at this now it looks very suspicious. Translation: Don't make me talk about the relationship so i dont have to come up with more lies.
