I'm sorry my friend. The thadeus has already texted and sexted your female friend. In fact he is probably sexing her right now. The spoils of wealth come to those who act quick.
That whole waiting thing is well..overated. You snooze, you lose. If you had a good first date, you want her to still have that good image of you inside of her head which will make it much easier for you to get to the next step. How comfortable are you with this girl? Shy type? Talkitive? Loves to text? answers to those questions will help you judge when the time is right let it be texting or calling. Just be smooth, a little bit of planning, a little bit of creativity will take you a long way. Personally, I dont like judging women by there age, race, or hobbies etc. There is always something about them that sets them apart from the rest. Find out what that is and your GOLD. You kinda just have to go with the flow man and be smooth. At first when dating, be cautious of your words and actions but dont be nervous. Be confident and assertive. They like for you to listen to what they have to say rather than you doing the talking. Still, throw in a line here and there or if asked a question. Last thing you want is for her to be your "friend" You can be the judge of how social you should get depending on her and the setting of the date. If you have a good sense of humor, use it but keep it to a minimal unless she has a thing for comedians. When all that talk starts to slow down, that means enough talking and time to make your move. The way she looks at you will tell you if you should move foward. If all goes well, you'll be rounding third base. Be sure to throw in that knock out punch! She'll be whoop'd. Make sure the catcher doesnt hold onto that baseball or else... you might not get seconds. It's all smooth sailing from there... GOOD LUCK By they way, please do not go out on a first or second date with friends.. thats lame and is a setup for total failure.