Never have. Never will. It's really quite simple to keep your dick in your pants. Just don't take it out. Problem solved. Of course, it is considerably MORE easy when you don't drink or partake in any controlled substances.
I came close to cheating on a girlfriend once in highschool but didn't. Ironically, that girl ended up cheating on me. Got what I deserved I suppose. Anyway, I'm engaged now to be married this August. I am against cheating (like most people) but I agree that the key to it is keeping yourself out of situations that lead to it. I love when people say one thing just led to another. The first "one thing" is normally easy to avoid. We were at a club and one thing just led to another. I was at a strip club and... I was at lunch with this hot girl and... This girl asked me to give her a ride home and... etc. II understand that once the ball is rolling your urges can be hard to ignore, but you can usually just avoid pushing the ball down the hill if you use some common sense.
I've cheated on all my girlfriends except 1. Although, I broke up with one right before I shagged this girl I was kinda seeing on the side. But we kinda already had 3 dates and oral sex. She was Czech. The one I never cheated on was the more recent. But that's because I gained some serious weight and all my sexy clothes didn't fit. Ohhh but they do now and then some. All in all I guess it's just my latinness. I can't help it. It's in my blood, my DNA, my moral fabric. My great granddaddy did it, his grandaddy did it. I hate to say it put it's part of my culture.
ok so you are just worried about him cheating without you knowing? obviously i don't know the exact dynamic of your relationship, but i am inclined to think of "bi-sexual" girls as hoes but thats me...so maybe he is paranoid. with that being said guys usually don't throw out accusations without being guilty themselves. anyhow...by bringing multiple people into the bedroom the monogamy of the relationship has pretty much been thrown out. so i wouldn't expect this relationship to have much of a future. that's just my opinion.
also....you say you let him be with another girl in the bedroom but you are the bisexual one. so who was the other girl for? you? him? both?
Nods, this is pretty much true. Once you cross that line of fantasy into making it a reality, I'm not sure you can really hang on the whole monogamy thing.
Yeah I would think once you let him get with another girl with you in the bedroom, I would say the line was already crossed. Edit: I mean it's cool whatever people do in their bedrooms so I didn't mean you "crossed the line" just that the line has to be blurry as to what is and what is not allowed at this point.
I think it depends on the couple. From what little information we have about the couple in question, it sounds like the jealousy means the idea was a bad one. I would never do it. I make the occasional joke about threesomes, but I would never go through with one. I'd also be a little worried if my wife was even open to the idea which she is not.
Well....I think it depends on how you're raised. I go to church, and I try to live the way God wants me to live. Of course I feel temptations......and I know that for when a man looks at a woman with lust he has already committed adultery in his heart. I try to control my urges. Sex isn't cracked up to be what people make of it. I know it is wrong to do and I would never want to hurt my girlfriend. It isn't worth throwing away a potentially good spouse. Some of you that have the audacity to cheat need to take a look at yourself in the mirror. You have problems.
It is ok to cheat if you honestly tell him that you are going to cheat no matter he likes it or not. He will appreciate your honesty. If he parts with you for cheating, then that means he is not compatible with your lifestyle. You should just cross him out of your life and find a guy who can accomodate your lifestyle. Life is quite simple if you are honest to yourself and people around you. Good luck!
well we won't get into the whole adultery in his heart thing. that is kind of stupid. actions mean everything not thoughts. just cause a guy says "OMFG!! that girl is smoking hot" doesn't mean he is cheating on his wife in his mind or heart. other than that you are spot on and it would be nice if guys were able to always think with their brains and not their balls.
I put never, but maybe I should change that. Once in college, I locked lips with a girl while I had another girlfriend. It didn't really go farther than that, and I didn't do it again. Another time when a long-term girlfriend and I were seeing other people(because she cheated on me) the agreement was that we could do that, but not have sex. I had sex. I told my girlfriend, and we worked it out. She didn't have much of a leg to stand on since she had cheated on me before. So I guess in my life I have cheated, in that I broke an agreement, and the kissing thing.
Never. I adore my boyfriend more than anything in the world and would never do anything to make him sad or disappointed in me.
Yeah, I'm sure if my girlfriend told me she was cheating on me, the first thing to go through my mind would be "gosh, I really appreciate her honesty!" Agreed. You can find "a guy who can accomodate your lifestyle" at the nearest bar or frat house. What could possibly go wrong?
