Got a return call from my e-mail basically saying "I don't understand". I volunteered to make it clear one last time this weekend while I grab lunch with her between other commitments. I'm talking about a Subway near my apt, so it's not exactly romantic or anything. This comment/question will stray off-topic a little, but it's my thread so I can do that! It may also get me in trouble, but it's something I am interested in, so I'd like to hear comments. What the heck is wrong with people? Since the beginning of my dating life, I've noticed one thing. Women just don't seem to get it. There seem to be an inordinate amount of women out there that are in desperate need of attention and are seeking some sort of validation. What the hell is that all about? No means no and go away means go away. I'm not so cocky to think my ish is *that* good, but they still seem to cross that crazy line more often than one would expect. In all seriousness, was it always like that? Where's the self-confidence? Are kids being brought up differently to cause this type of reaction? What the heck is going on? NOTE(!!!!): Please understand that no offense was meant to women. I'm sure PLENTY of guys are like this, too. I just happen to hang out with a very confident crew who doesn't think like this. Therefore we just don't get it. The "needy-ness" is a trait that is probably common in guys and girls. My experiences have just happened to lead me to observe it more often in women. Hopefully the note will address the backlash, but I'm still bracing for it. ------------------
Here are my favorites... "Welcome to Dumpsville, population... you." "I'm not gay, but I'll learn" And my personal fav, sung to the tune of Harry Connick Jr.'s song "It had to be you" "I wanna dump youuuu I wanna dump youuuu We flirted around until I found Somebody whooooo would not go awayyyy So I have to sayyyyy I'm tired of you you look like doo doo I wanna dump youuuuuuuu!" Hope that helps ------------------ "I never did like that "Dr. Stupid""-Monty Burns
