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Being Called a "Girl"

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by drumbum, Apr 9, 2008.

  1. drumbum

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    A diehard Rockets fan who is a friend of mine, (a female) told me that T-Mac was out tonight, I made a joke and said "he is such a girl" and she takes it super offensively, and makes a HUGE deal out of it and how i am sexist, and chauvinistic, and that not "PC" at all.

    Now I get where she is coming form but is she overreacting at all a little?

    And to add to it, she's my exgirlfriend and we were bestfriends priot to dating, and now are trying to go back to that, but some days are great no fighting etc etc, other days its just too much over something like calling tmac a "girl" or "feminine".

    I concede I'm wrong, I guess what I'm trying to ask is how can I make things okay. etc etc.
     
  2. armyman7894

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    1. is she hot?
    2. do y'all still bang?
    3. post pictures.
    4. if she got mad over that shes crazy, there was nothing wrong with what you said.
    5. isn't it kind of impossible to go back to being best friends and yada yada? too much prior chemistry.
     
  3. lpbman

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    She is harboring resentment towards you for whatever reason.
     
  4. no_answer

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    pms, maybe she had a bad day and she's just taking it out on you. Calling someone a girl is hardly something to get upset about.
     
  5. Lil Pun

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    1. Well, is she?
    2. He wants sloppy seconds.
    3. Agree.
    4. Seems harmless.
    5. Depends
     
  6. Yaozer

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    I hate ex gf's... they're useless [unless you're getting some]. I would just cut the ties, but damn that gotta be a hard decision since she's a die hard Rox fan. Don't find them around them around much.
     
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    She sounds immature. Don't fight over something so simple.
     
  8. R0ckets03

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    Tell her to stop acting like a girl. :D
     
  9. Yaozer

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    She should be thankful that she's being compared to Tmac, one of the top Superstars in today's game. Now if you call Sasha Vujina a girl, I'd understand.
     
  10. WWR

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    Sounds like someone I'd love to offend.

    Tell her to grow some thick skin or GTFO.
     
  11. drumbum

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    That would be a recipe for disaster.

    We fight more AFTER the break than before. Most likely due to the tension, but we're both ready to move on, and it seems like she's just agnry at me for a mistake I made a month ago. (No, not cheat on her, I just told her she's changed, hasn't been a good friend etc etc, mostly due to the fact that it was right after the break up and I was expecting way too much)

    But I just don't know what to say to her to make THIS better...
     
  12. RoxSqaud

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    You broke up and you still fight with her........Yall need to just get married........It will happen...........BTW.....Is she hot???

    ~ROX~
     
  13. SirCharlesFan

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    lol, you poor sap.........
     
  14. IROC it

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    Posting this thread was very girlish....just tell her to take some Midol, and leave you alone.

    ;)

    DD
     
  16. glad_ken

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    Don't apologize for saying that! Let her get all pissy if she wants. Stand up and be a man son!!!! Pull an 'O-Dog' from Menace and say, " Hey, you know what? You acting like a little b**** right now!"
     
  17. armyman7894

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    have make up sex and pull a 'houdini' on her :D
     
  18. TexasFight

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    don't put the p**** on a pedestal...

    tell her to GTFO if she has a problem with what you say... who has time for that?
     
  19. drumbum

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    You know, I kinda wish I wasn't as soft from the start.

    But at the end of the day, its not even that I couldn't say that, I wouldn't want to.

    I think the biggest issue is how shes become a punk, and always picking fights, and I don't think she's on her period, cause generally they don't last a month.

    Might be stress with a whole bunch school and other crud on her plate, but I can't defend her and argue with myself, just pointless.
     
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