i dont know...the kind of dude who follows other dudes into the restroom to check out their junk probably likes being peed on. you might be opening up a whole other can or worms with that one.
and he probably took that as an invite. you should have started screaming at him to back off the second he grabbed you. and even if he did you still would have been totally justified in beating the crap out of him. ive been hit on by gay dudes - dont take it personally or like its some attack on your dudehood. but this guy definitely went too far - gay or not, that is not normal behavior - if a guy did that to a female they would get slapped and kicked out of the club.
The kind of guy that follows guys into the restroom to look at their junk might like getting punched in the face, too. I wouldn't worry so much about whether or not I was playing into their fantasies at that point and just go with what works for me. And I gotta say, pissing in the guys face would work pretty well for me.
Aussie Rocket I think you went into the wrong Asian BAR!!! When the bartender ask if you want a happy ending and it's a guy, walk away immediately.
Was not an Asian bar - only one gay bar in town and it was 3-4 blocks from where we were. That *** should of been there...except I guess it wasnt open on a Sunday afternoon.
AHHH! DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES EVEN ON THE WEB TELL THE THADEUS YOU ARE "FEELING VULNERABLE." 2 IN 3 PREGANANCIES RESULT FROM THIS. (joke about the movie Cruising removed.) You know, we're having fun and all, but you really were sexually assaulted. Even though it's impossible on "an internet," and you can only expect jokes when you share this kind of thing, I think we should all be cutting you a break. It usually happens to women, and people can say "this wasn't that big of a deal, man up," but from what I understand, it is super disturbing. Never happened to me, but the women I know who've had similar things happen (no, they don't have dicks, you pervs -- I mean they were groped by surprise), it's horrible.
was he?I keed... Wow, that sux...I can undertand being shocked and not knowing what to do, but man, you should have kicked his ass...
Cheers for the sentiment B-Bob. Everyone laughs about it, here and my actual friends. Hell, my wife laughed her arse off (may the universe bless her). Its cool, and I understand. But at the same time, it consumes my thoughts, and creeps me out when i'm not actively thinking about other matters. Again, I hope this is all temporary. In the meantime, laughing about it self-deprecatively and sharing it with all my clutch friends is the best therapy.
