Surprised it took someone so long so say it. If I'm sitting there and a guy comes up to me and just introduces himself out of nowhere (or god forbid, throws out a pick-up line), I smile nicely and in all probability leave or try to get myself out of the situation. It's different if they're talking about something I'm interested in. If I'm wearing some sort of political shirt and he talks to me about it, of course I'll have a nice convo, I'm not going to be a b**** just because I'm not attracted to him. But the whole, forced smile, "Hey, I'm ____, what's your name?" strikes me as creepy for some reason. I think meeting someone would evolve primarily out of funny situations/jokes/occurrences. For example, the barista sloshes some coffee on some girl accidentally. Then you, standing there, help her or try (appropriately) to lighten the situation somehow. You could maybe eventually strike up a conversation. (That's how my cousin met her current fiance). You just have to wait for a MOMENT. Without a moment, you just seem desperate and kind of loserish. And of course, meeting people is easier for hotties. But that's life.
How about, "Can I get yo NUMBA? You Fine as Hell! Can I get YO NUMBA? Damn Yoo SEXY Can I getcyo NUMBA?".
That will work, but only after using one of the quotes from this thread: http://bbs.clutchfans.net/showthread.php?t=78324
I have 3 sisters, but I'm still pretty much clueless on how to approache female that's not from my family, or unless they are my childhood friends.
The shortest distance between 2 points is a straight line. If you take a zig-zag approach or circle around here, she might be scared off.
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Kinda like that with me too. All living with a high ratio of females has taught me is, a man's gotta live his life taking a piece of guilt, pressure and blame for their messups so they can feel better What that has to do with approaching women the best way, dont know. But know if it ends up bad its automatically your fault for not doing it right.
So, which political party do you usually support? Per your coffee house situation, if I was interested in you, I'd probably lean in towards you a little and ask, "So, who do you think is more embarrassed right now (the barista or the girl with coffee all on her)? Whatever your answer would be, I would playfully argue the other point. So, you're saying you're not a hottie?
I agree with pmac's advice earlier in this thread. Also, if a girl isn't physically attracted to you, if you make good conversation and make her laugh, you can get past that intial lack of physical attraction. You just gotta step up lucccky. Sometimes you'll get rejected and other times you'll succeed, but at least you tried. For the longest time, that old Pharcyde song described my life...you know, she keeps on passing me by. But at some point I said f it and was like what's the worst thing she can say? no, right? Oh well, move on to the next one. In basketball terms, even the best players out there get rejected on the court and I'm sure off the court , but they still take it to the hole. This reminds of a funny story that happened to me a few months ago, I was reading at a Starbucks and me and this one guy made some conversation and he was meeting a few girls up there and he introduced me to one. She wasn't bad looking and we hit it off until she found out that I was Muslim. Her whole demeanor changed. It was funny because she seemed into me before that, but I don't let that stuff bother me anymore. I just laughed it off. So lucccky you just gotta try, that's it. If worse comes to worse, try approaching a girl by saying hi and introducing yourself and taking it from there. Be genuine and sincere. Let us know how things turn out.
Give her pointers in her workout so she can get the most of her workout. For example if she is working on her arms and what she is doing you know doesnt do very much for her, and you have a better idea for her to get more tone in her arms or whatever, tell her. After that, its gametime. **** works.
I'm like god. I'm so good with women. I will explain tomorrow. I need to get some sleep for now. mazyar out 2:11 am pacific
