i understand that shaud, but a chick at the supermarket or a book store? dentist office? doctor office? you kidding me? dont have a problem with chicks, but in this case, it is hard to do so for anybody, mr. internet smoothy hahaha
The question is is there a way to approach a girl at the gym when I'm listening to my ipod and shes got on earphones as well? There's this girl at the gym and I'd be doing my thing and she comes and starts lifting near me and we make eye contact in the mirror in front of us and I wanna say holler so bad but I can't. Can only smile at each other.
you seem like youre scared of rejection. if you see a cute chick in walmart and she is by herself talk to her cuz women dont like shopping alone that much and they love to talk to people in public places. go for what you want
dude, gym is the easiest ever, if you see her more than once, "hi, how are you? i see you around alot just wanted to know your name" then introduce yourself and then go away and do your own thing, then the next time you see her again, thats when the magic happens, save it for next time... you see her again and say hi how are you? then just start talking to her, when youre able to see someone again or know youre going to see them again, its easy, cause you can just introduce and go on with yourself until next time and not come off as a freak, but man the case im saying youre never going to see that person again so sparking a convo and trying to get her number at the same in is already hard
funny how you should say that. i was at walmart buying a coffee maker and there's a cute latina by herself also looking at coffee makers. there's the 20 dollar type and the 100 dollar type. i asked her what's the difference but she said she doesn't know but she has a 20 dollar coffee maker and it works fine. i also made a few witty comments like "does it make coffee 5 times blacker?" which made her smile. i was thinking "what's she doing in the coffee maker isle" if she's already got one, right? things went through my head like... should i ask for her number? i could say something like... do you like make coffee for your boyfriend? in the end, i just said "thanks" and walked away. another regret on a long list of regrets. *sigh*
Don't talk to everyone. Pick out something... like the clerk giving someone the wrong order or something and make a quick joke about it that conveys the sense that you think she's smart and "gets it." The absolute critical skill to have when approaching unknown women in public is to have an untouchable ego and not care about getting shot down, because it will happen often. The only guys I've seen be successful at this were like cornerbacks or 3 point shooters... they could get beat or miss repeatedly, but were certain they would make the next play. You must cultivate this attitude.
i didnt say never, you said life is full of rejections and I said not for me i just like to play it safe cause i just dont like getting rejected period i hardly do anyways, haha!
oh sorry, but if you start talking to her im pretty sure she will take them off, dont you think? i go to the gym alot too but the one i go too, there are no hunnies except for that psycho girl i talked about in my other thread lol shes pretty cute but shes crazy...
Women are like Lions, they easily feel threatened by a direct approach. Try approaching her while facing away from her, ie. the same way she is facing with your back to her, start the conversation still facing this way and hold the posture for a minimum of two minutes but the longer the better. This helps break the ice and make her feel less threatened by the entire approach. It also helps if you present a large uncooked steak at her feet, she will be impressed by your ability to provide for her, it may also help if you rip out the throat with your teeth of any other men who may trying to court her, this will show her you are master of your domain. Good luck out there with these tips I know you will be spreading your seed in no time.
