Looking over old posts. Damn I need to get off the board and do something productive. Spoiler Jan 2012 Jan 2013
Based off my OP @ post # 4? .....things have changed since 2012. Well, I turned 30 this year. I'm not married, never have been. I've been dating a 23 year old for about a year and a half....this are going pretty damn well. Thinking the knot will be tied in he coming year.
This is absolutely true. I am very set in my routine. At this point, incorporating someone into it is more difficult than ever. I don't need anyone in my life to "fix" or "tame" me. I'm quite established and take good care of myself. I've found a couple of people so far that I would absolutely marry, even though I don't like the idea, because their companionship means that much to me, but there's always a part of me that's like "eh, just do it to shut em up". Heh
What is your point? That kids disrupt a routine? Or you think you're better at handling priorities because you squirted out some kids? Cause if it's the former, I have a No ***** Sherlock award with your name on it. If it's the latter... this thread isn't a pissing contest, breh. Kids seem more like chaos than routine, FWIW.
Sex can get stagnant at any point in a long term relationship, married or not. But yeah... having kids is no joke. I had to "man up" and now I am some sort of responsible adult. **** is pretty lame.
They're coming eventually. I just want to have my house poop and vomit sealed before we light the fuse on the baby cannon.
So you're just saying "I cannot (or don't know how to) deal with 'chaos' right now", right? Earlier you're all "they're chaos" and now you're saying "eventually." So I am thinking you'll read or learn a lot before having them. Is that right? I mean, that's cool and all. It's up to you. LOLs. :grin:
