imo, flowers probably would have worked better had you just brought them home for the house, not note, just placed prominently on the mantel, breakfast table, etc. and when she asked about them, then you say what you tried to say in the note..."well, I like having flowers around. Plus, you always said no one buys flowers for you."
Ugh alright OP. I can tell that you are a young buck and not sure what is going on. First, I think you are attracted to her. I think she was attracted to the attention you gave her. Personally I would pork her and get video to add to my personal collection. I have quite a bit of video of Arab women I have boinked over the years... but I digress. You, are younger than I and have not developed or experienced what I have, so you DONT need to be dating or sleeping with this girl. She has a few screws loose. She is attractive, yet says she doesn't have a boyfriend.... Why? Because she isn't all there. She cooked for you, spoken openly about not wanting a boyfriend etc... Then gives you the cold shoulder, that is reindeer game BS you don't know how to play. It isn't that she wanted you inside her, she wanted the attention. She wanted you to WANT her. It isn't about you, it is about her ego. You don't need a b**** like that. It never would have led to a good sexual relationship or girlfriend type relationship. The flowers were stupid, but you are confused so just let it go. You care too much about what she thinks. Just be polite to her, even talk to her, but don't give a **** about what "is going on". Just go to work, be respectful and do your own thing. You give any more time or thought to her and "what is wrong with her", you will only end up with more crap than it is worth. Next month it will be something else bothering her. Let her worry about it, not you.
What he should have done is recognize she wants attention and has issues. Next time he needs to buy a 6 pack of his favorite beer and relax instead of trying to figure out what is wrong with his roomate.
True. When dealing with women you must always tell yourself "it doesn't have to make sense". Just accept it and move along.
correct. I was just trying to go with the flow of the flower issue, without saying what's already been said..."bad idea" I don't think I've ever seen a guy work so hard to enter the Friendzone. Makes me question his motivations. He might be lying to himself about his intentions.
The one FACT that is of ZERO debate is that you can't take any advice about females from HeyPartner. That is like asking the sand for a drop of water. DD
I can offer another hypothesis that happened to me in a similar situation. You blew it and here's why: When a girl digs you, they have a romanticized image of what you're like. It can be unreasonable, but maybe she thought you weren't into seeing random girls and that you're shy, into her or whatever, but not the "typical guy". When you brought the chicks over, you've burst that bubble and she no longer thinks of you that way. Maybe that's her real personality when she's not into someone. Girls can be like that... just do a 180 when they longer consider you a prospect.
My advice on the previous page to plant a cockroach in the TV room to rush in and save the day was a joke. You must think us bachelors still do pranks like that to the girls with kooties, projecting onto us your adolescent days prior to leaving the dating scene. You're outta touch, 'breh. Us bachelors don't really do that anymore much past age 16.
This thread confuses me... Does "It's summer... People suppose get horny." work differently down under? Is it like belt buckles only shifting one direction when wearing corduroy pants?
I'm kind of down for the count here, and you bring up one of my worst threads ever. There was hope that everyone had forgotten the "cordiolis" effect. Also, I quit wearing cords.
