Stop thinking so much. You need to believe that everyone woman in the world wants to bang you, it makes life better.
I used to be as shy as you, and I'm still not where I want to be in terms of picking up girls but damn she's putting herself up on a silver platter, I never had that luxury! You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, that's sorta helped me.
Ask her to hang out. If she says no, who freaking cares. I have been rejected a crap ton of times, but guess what you keep asking. Once you get over your feet or rejection you will start adding notches on your bed post.
You go to church, right? Just talk to her at church, or sit next to her, or do a church activity with her. Pretty simple.
All this advice is falling on deaf ears because this guy is absolutely PETRIFIED at the thought of actually talking to a girl. That being the case, there is nothing we can say or do to help him.
You're approaching everything with the attitude that you're going to be rejected. Right now you're comfortable with her as idea rather than her as a person. You sound stuck up and annoying right now, like a baby who wants all the attention but can't pick himself up. So what if you're rejected? Will you transform into a burn victim? If she really is worth it, then you have nothing to lose by talking to her and opening up a little. Inside your mind, if she was really worth it, then you would do far more than think and play games. I think you have your answer... Think about it for a few years and come back with a response.
I think we need pictures before we can give the right advice. Lol just talk to her...in person or through the internet to start. Do that or accept defeat and give up on her
I'm pretty sure OP is at least 25, and that makes this whole thing even worse. I mean, if you were a nervous 14 year old that'd be one thing. But to be an adult and still be terrified of saying a few words to someone? Damn. I'm starting to think this is a troll thread and OP is just LOLing at the sincere responses. If not then man, just go talk to her. Don't think about it; just do it. And it'll be easy from there.
I tried the Internet chat up and didn't work, my crush in high school would literally stare at me for 5 full class periods, so I hit her up on fb....and nothing. it's best if you try something different.
Tag this thread to one of her Instagram pictures (I don't do Instagram so not sure if that's even possible)
Lol this. It's more than likely the OP is trolling. Sorry white knights, you've been played. It's summer so give him some break.
So if you know her Facebook and Instagram, why can't you just send her a message? even if she's just being friendly. At least you'll know.
The issue is for some reason guys don't realize girls are people too. If a girl asked OP to hang out and he wasn't interested, would he be offended? Of course not he'd be flattered, even if he wasn't interested. Here's my advice. Text her hey wanna hang out? I have a cheap bottle of vodka and a cheesy scary movie with your name on it.
Talk to her. What's the worst case scenario? Things go back to exactly the same, except you will receive less instagram likes?
