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1. Man, you sound like a nice guy. This is the LAST place you should ever come for girl/personal advice....see similar threads before yours. You are better off going to a "Dear Abby" type site if you are looking for relationship advice. 2. You have be okay with yourself (in your own skin) before you can be with a girl of this caliber. You just sound shy, and maybe lacking a little confidence. There are many people like this, I used to be. I would clam up or have some awkward silence each time I would talk myself into chatting up a girl I thought was pretty. Chat up a girl in class, or even in the grocery store line (even if she's not attractive). After a while it will just become easy. If you find yourself feeling nervous or not knowing what to say, ask her about herself (where she's from, school, family, pets)-- I find that most people enjoy talking about themselves. As others said, ask her for coffee-- no pressure situation .......Plus it's summertime-- people supposed to get horny!!
Friend zoned, lul. They don't even talk. They're not even friends. They're just people. Two people that have seen each other before and might know each others name.
Duuuuuude, you need some self-confidence. If you treat yourself like that others can see it in you. Start working out, challenge yourself, go out and talk to other people. You are putting the p***y on a pedestal. You are over-thinking things. If you like this girl go and still see her from time to time, talk to her. Do not be afraid to talk to new people. Why torment yourself for months with 'does she like me?' when you can just figure that out for yourself. Talking to a chick should be as casual as if it was with one of your friends. There isn't some magic words to say like in a cheesy film that will make a girl fall head over heels for you. Just say hey, ask if she wants to grab a drink(if y'all even drink) or something sometime. She'll be pretty clear in her response. At least you aren't in the friendzone if you two aren't even friends right now. Also liking things on social media isn't really a telltale sign of anything. Girl's like **** all the time. They'll wake up in the morning, grab their phones and like 50 pictures at one time. It is just what they do.
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What the hell is wrong with you man? Your never going to get anything in life with at attitude. Man up
OP - listen to this man. After all, this is what he did to get the beautiful vivi. If it works for him, it will definitely work for you!
It's not too late, man. Even if she has another guy on her radar, who cares? You can still tell her you like her. Just do it. Simple as that. Just ask her to go for a walk or something, and then tell her that you like her.
Play to your strengths and be yourself. If you're a funny guy, be funny around her. If you're a clever/smart guy, be clever/smart around her. But never be something you're not. Girls (people in general really) will see right through it and not like it. Nobody likes being sold. If you're going to not be with the girl, at least do it knowing you gave it a shot. Worst outcome you end up where you started. Best case scenario is you win her over. Good luck breh.
All this advice is so pointless and cliche. Be yourself! Have guts! Just talk to her! You don't think every guy has heard that advice? You don't just develop the ability to talk to a girl because someone tells you to be yourself. That is a trait that is developed over years. For most teenagers they will have it or not have based on how they have been raised. For most adults they'll have it or not based on the experiences they've had with the opposite sex since they were teenagers.
1) The Thadeus already hit it and quit it. 2) We want to see pics dammit!! 3) The Thadeus hit it some more while you were typing in this thread.
I use to be like you and it never got me a girl. I had all these girls that liked me, would give me signs, etc but I was too much of an idiot to take it further because I was attempting to be the gentleman, the nice guy, etc. Don't end up in that loop OP, at some point you just have to grow a set and assert yourself. No girl is going to fall out of the sky and tell you directly to your face she wants you.
Silly kids. If all of CFs tells you to talk to her, will you even listen? She internet stalked you, she's in. Don't be a chicken.
She also posted an article a couple weeks ago on FB titled, "It's time to man up!" Lol... Of course, it could all be for another dude.. I don't want to think it's all about me. For all I know she is just friendly and likes my pictures..
