That I see 1-3 times a month, only weekly at a meeting I have with my friends at my Church. Since January. I have been mad crushing on her. But never had the courage to talk to her and spark a real conversation. Our only connection had been when we made and maintained eye contact for five seconds...which felt like an eternity for me. She had followed me on Instagram a few months back even when I didn't talk to her... And likes a lot of my pictures... You would think that would be a good conversation starter and a go ahead sign for me to talk to her... But I never did. And now I think she has moved on because she doesn't like my pictures as much anymore. I know what I should do... Which is talk to her... But I simply can't. My heart beats unbearably when she's in the same room. All we have done is like each other's pictures back and forth for the past months. I'm pretty sure I've let her slip already and she's liking some other dude's photos... Discuss. What is the grace period for a girl to lose interest in a guy who doesn't do anything to pursue her?
<object width="560" height="315"><param name="movie" value="//www.youtube.com/v/WsnXQdkqChg?hl=en_US&version=3"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="//www.youtube.com/v/WsnXQdkqChg?hl=en_US&version=3" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="560" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"></embed></object> She's a person. Just talk to her.
Hypothetically, let's say she HAS lost interest me and has started to like another guy... Is there any chance to regain her interest? Or am I put in the friendzone automatically because I failed to talk to her when she showed interest?
You're a *****. You don't deserve her. Move on and learn. Next time you'll learn when to move and be more confident about yourself.
Like you couldn't even strike a conversation about school or work? Why didn't you talk about the church?
strike while it's hot. i failed so many times cause i didn't strike while hot. when i mean many times, i mean not often, but i still didn't strike.
It's not that hard. Say "Hi.... How are you doing? Blah blah blah.... I was curious if you wanted to go out for coffee or a bite to eat some time?"
