I'm sorry but I take offense to the inclusion of Love & Hip Hop ATL. That show is f-cking comedy gold!
Saggy or flat butts Fat stomachs Man face Psycho chicks Dumb girls Rancid smelling "woman's unspeakables"
two to three, I said was ok. 4 is eye-raising. 5 is concerning. 6, try to end this meetup casually without fire. 7 or more is get the hell outta dodge, as soon as possible.
I don't know about deal breakers, but these are turn offs for me. - Bad Spelling/grammar - Necklaces for some weird reason - Being Inconsiderate to others (driving while texting, etc) - Smoking - Chest Tattoos (seem to go hand in hand with drama in my experience)
as a single dad with two sons my cut list is pretty extensive. Let's go ahead and assume attractive, cause if the switch doesn't flip to the on position - it's a no go - forever single (never married) - immediate cut, psycho and needs to move on to cats - divorced no kids - biological clock is ticking and they want kids (yours, his, hers -whoevers) - poor taste in clothes - if she doesn't know how to dress on a date, she doesn't know how to dress for life (business events, family gatherings, etc.) - overly religious - I can deal with some, but not much religion - prude - you can sniff these out quick and realize your sexless whipped life - slutty - opposite side, but you've got to make me work a little. if you're sending me naked pics when we still haven't met face to face; first, thank you. second, bye. - poor/low income - I tried to make this work thinking a girl with modest means would be much more appreciative and easier to get along with. I haven't found that to work well in practice. - girls looking for a sugar daddy - go the f away. - wears granny panties as a staple - no. i don't care how comfortable. some styles are shear with no lines and they are acceptable, but as a standard it means prude (see above). - too far away - if it's more than 15 miles I won't make it more than 2 dates - too close - don't poop where you eat - overly aggressive and pushing a relationship - umm... hell no - can't deal with me spending time with my kids and trumpets the "I need time too card *(after 2-3 weeks) - buh bye - smoker - bad teeth - stinky - tattoos (i can deal with small, tasteful but not tramp stamps or sleeves) ok - so maybe I have some issues.
Were I single: SMOKER. Yuck breath, yuck habits. Probably yuck va-G-G, too. That's your DEAL BREAKER? DaF*q?!?!?
Dumb Doesn't get sarcasm Plastic surgery of any kind Takes crap from people (including me) Shy (this is a HUGE one) Wishy washy Luckily, my wife is none of the above.
Perhaps for me it would be someone who puts too much in their 'deal breakers" list, as they're obviously overly retentive and have an artificially inflated self image.
My deal breaker is any woman who thinks she's going to have an impact on what I do with my time. Yes, I am single.
I mean you can't have a relationship of any kind, even a friendship, that doesn't "impact" your time.
Impacting my time is not the most accurate way to say what I mean. What I mean is that I cannot put up with anyone dictating a schedule to me that I do not want. When you're in a relationship, especially with kids, that is your life. I am averse to commitment of any kind. I have plenty of friends, though.
